Would I joke around about something this serious??? I'm 46 years old and it does happen. The problem is he wants a baby and I don't. He is 5 years younger then me.
...well, your age is certainly a consideration health-wise, both for you and the child. ...But age aside, let me pose a question to you; if you were 30-35 years old would you want to have a child with this man?
...I thought you'd probably say that and I'm glad to hear it. Have a heart to heart with him and if he's truly the man you believe him to be, I'm sure he'll see the bigger picture from your point of view. I've always believed that decisions like this ultimately should be made by the woman anyway because it IS after all, her body. ...I don't envy your situation, Lil ...but I do wish you the best.
We're here if you need to talk about it. You have to do what's best for you at this point in your life.
Thanks Vic maybe I should let him read this Board when he gets home from work. Maybe that would knock some sense into him.
Just got home from the Doctor and I am 6 months pregnant a little too late to do anything about it now......... I'm having a boy.
Wow! Holy moly! Lil, at this time you must take care of yourself and it wouldn't hurt if your hubby helps you. I, too, wish both of you the best. Just think you, your hubby & baby boy will go to see the Yankees sometime in the near future.