first at almost 33, 2nd at 34. By "getting serious" it went from "having fun, and if it happens it happens" to "it hasn't happened in 5 years, so let's get medical testing done, explore other options, etc."
The two ideas (getting old vs. having kids and starting a family) have two different answers for me. I haven't yet begun to feel old. I felt it was time to get married and have kids in my late 30s.
Yeah, I'm kind of a freak show at preschool. I just didn't have a lifestyle until a few years ago where it would have been responsible to have a child.
or not. Kids are wonderful, but it's not like the world is suffering from a lack of people. Mom's personal desire for grandkids is understandable but the times they are a changin' STOMP
I can't imagine how much anger you'd have toward your kids, let alone a wife, if they would dare not agree that you have all of the answers. Some people are meant to hike in the woods alone and argue on the internet to the point of going ALL CAPS STOMP.
Yet to happen and I'm 28 and in a pretty serious relationship. I guess I'm not done traveling. Dunno.
You gotta dump the cougars and go after girls in their mid 20s. These 45 year olds aren't going to pop out babies
I was dirt poor until I was around 29...... So that was the LAST thing on my mind. Don't rush it bro! Sent from my baller ass iPad FAMS!
The culture in places like Portland or suburbs or smaller communities is to focus on getting married young because of the prevailing thought of possible mates being a finite supply. Move to a big city if u want to delay it.
