I purged my ignore list a few weeks ago. It is clear that it won't stay that way. And there is really nothing wrong with that fact. The problem, for me, comes when members direct there posts directly at me rather than my post/topic. No matter how I try to stay above the fray, change my posting habits, responses, etc. nothing changes. I still get a froggy member who has to leap. At that point, due to my autism, (I have recently learned that) I will mimic your negativity towards me, even if I don't want to, and then we are no longer having a conversation, we are arguing. Once we are arguing, it is all over. We won't be getting along, we won't be talking very long either as I will just leave it there. I didn't come to take on someone else's bullshit. If I trigger you, keep it to yourself. Or better yet, ask a question. Most people don't get me as it is anyway. I see things very different from other people, that will always be the case. So please, either keep your responses to the post itself or the topic, all responses directed at me personally will end any ability of mine to respond to your post in any other manner than a negative one. Thanks and take it easy, Road Ratt (As far as I am concerned, you can lock the thread. I don't care about any responses to this thread... at all)
Honestly, outside of a few people, I have no idea who people are minutes after a conversation is over with. As in, if you and I had come to blows (verbally speaking), I have absolutely no memory of it. I can't stand @SlyPokerDog, but I usually forget why.
If this is about the tea thread yesterday I didn't mean to start anything with you and I apologize if I was out of line.
Ive been a mimicker around here.. even if I don't want to as well. Sometimes certain people are just... and I cant help but then toss some of their same shit back at them, but ill be honest. Most don't realize im mocking them and think im the one with he issue. So it may not turn out well, as you have stated. So I get it and sympathize. There are many here who aren't straight shooters, want to just play a game of gotcha, and only engage when they think they can get one over on you and then those same people cant understand why they get the return responses they do. They initiate agro vibes and simply are lost why it comes back at them. So I guess what im saying is thought I totally get ya,. it may not be the best way and the ignore may be a quicker and better option than mimicking. It hasn't really improved any relations for me, other than provide some chuckles and laughs.
That may be you, but some of us came here with friends, made friends and sometimes hang out outside of here as friends. Help each other as friends. Please understand that, your stance or view of this place isn't the only way people view it.
ahh if thats the case then i agree, with the exception of a few people, this seems fairly true. Sorry @julius if i misunderstood you on that.
