I am not opposed to adoption if freely chosen. I don't say Christianity is crap. That is a vague and unscientific statement. I say all religions are myth. Someone wants to believe them, their business. Someone wants to force others to live by their beliefs, I fight them.
Trying to force some one to believe in your religion is stupid because it's counter productive. Being kind is the best approach which, of course, must be sincere otherwise save your effort for someone who might be willing to listen. Take it from me, life's too short to argue aimlessly.
Sure, keep you wife happy. Nobody has a problem with that. When you start involving any other wives/women I have a problem with that. Why don't you understand that??