Long distance relationships

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  1. Shapecity

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    I could never last in a long distance relationship. After awhile you run out of things to talk about because you aren't experiencing anything together. You end up getting bored with one another.
     
  2. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Doesnt the "long distance" part defeat the purpose of a relationship anyway?</div>

    If I was only planning on being with her for 4-6 months, then sure.
     
  3. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">Mel JBB Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">
    4-6 months is doable, but constant communication is the only way it'll be possible.</div>

    Absolutely, right now neither of us can even handle not talking at least once a day and I can't see that changing anytime soon.

    I am confident it will all work out, just wondering if other people had had the same sort of experience.
     
  4. NTC

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    <div class="quote_poster">Mamba Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">If your purpose in a relationship is to bone, then yeah it does. If you aren't that shallow-minded, then no.</div>

    Well even if your purpose isnt just about the sex, I thought a relationship was about being together, I mean I guess its ok here for Desmond because his lady is coming back in 4-6 months, but for those who like live on the other side of the world / country / state or what ever, I just dont see the point.

    If you want to be with a girl that badly, you'd go with her, or like wise.
     
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    <div class="quote_poster">shapecity Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I could never last in a long distance relationship. After awhile you run out of things to talk about because you aren't experiencing anything together. You end up getting bored with one another.</div>

    Plus it can get really expensive. My buddy ran up his phone bill to $500+ and $600+ in two consequetive months.
     
  6. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">Mel JBB Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Plus it can get really expensive. My buddy ran up his phone bill to $500+ and $600+ in two consequetive months.</div>

    Yeah I got on a cap specifically because of it.
     
  7. Chuck

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    She did it before and it worked? Then why is she in another relationship?
    :P
     
  8. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">Chuck Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">She did it before and it worked? Then why is she in another relationship?
    :P</div>

    I should have clarified. She was with someone for two years long distance before it ended, so by that 4-6 months shouldn't be a problem.
     
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    Crucial question that needs to be answered here before we go any further:

    Have you slept with her yet?
     
  10. Shard

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    You should skeet in a condom or something and mail it to her and tell her to shove it up her vag. Then maybe she'll get pregnant and be forced to make it work.
     
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    <div class="quote_poster">Sir Desmond Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I should have clarified. She was with someone for two years long distance before it ended, so by that 4-6 months shouldn't be a problem.</div>

    But maybe she cheated on that guy and didn't tell you about it. I wouldn't automatically assume that it has worked before, though you know your woman better than anyone else; I just don't believe in these sort of relationships.
     
  12. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">Nasty Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Crucial question that needs to be answered here before we go any further:

    Have you slept with her yet?</div>

    Yes.

    And if anyone wanted an update, I'll be seeing her from Wednesday through Saturday next week, which will be good.
     
  13. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">huevonkiller Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">But maybe she cheated on that guy and didn't tell you about it. I wouldn't automatically assume that it has worked before, though you know your woman better than anyone else; I just don't believe in these sort of relationships.</div>

    If I didn't trust her immensely and believed she felt the same towards me then there'd be no point even thinking about committing to this sort of a situation.
     
  14. Mr. J

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    <div class="quote_poster">Sir Desmond Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Yes.

    And if anyone wanted an update, I'll be seeing her from Wednesday through Saturday next week, which will be good.</div>
    You definitely need to make sure things work out with her since you lost your virginity to her.
     
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    You found a chick desperate enough to have sex with you? No wonder you're so intent on keeping her.
     
  16. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">MrJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">You definitely need to make sure things work out with her since you lost your virginity to her.</div>

    Brilliant. Well done.
     
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    <div class="quote_poster">MrJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">You definitely need to make sure things work out with her since you lost your virginity to her.</div>
    Oh my god, that was great. [​IMG]
     
  18. Sir Desmond

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    <div class="quote_poster">44Thrilla Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Oh my god, that was great. [​IMG]</div>

    If he wants to ignore what happened with his mother then it's his choice.
     
  19. Mr. J

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    <div class="quote_poster">Sir Desmond Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">If he wants to ignore what happened with his mother then it's his choice.</div>
    Weak, you can come up with something better than that.
     
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    <div class="quote_poster">MrJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Weak, you can come up with something better than that.</div>

    You didn't know? I thought you would have gotten the hint when she cooked your breakfast in nothing but an oversized Sonics #24 jersey.
     

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