Well the other day, I was on a message board for this nightclub I frequent, and this girl on there asked a question about somthing, which I happened to know the answer for, she left her email too, so I thought I might aswell add her, some one new to talk to, so I added her. About 2 hours later she comes online, all the regular thing "Hey, who are you?" so I explain, she's just like "oh ok, kool", so then we get to talking. 5 minutes in she asks me to send my pic, so I do (the one you can find in the members section, or get off Notorious, lol), she doesnt say anything relating to my photo, but shes still talking to me, so its all good. We just continue talking about some random stuff, then she says to me "come out this weekend", I sort of just brushed it off, then about 10 minutes later, she says "come out and party with me this weekend", again I sort of brushed it off with some small talk, then about another 10 minutes later she tells me she has to leave as her mum needs to use the computer, and she says "you're coming out this weekend", and I just said, "Ok, sounds like a plan, lol", so I dunno, now I'm thinking she really wants to meet up, although she didnt offer any official plans, but the last couple of nights, while I've been at work (and my MSN on 'Away'), she's left me a couple of "Hey", so she seems interested in me enough to keep wanting to talk to me, I dunno what I should do though, if I should go after her or what She seems like a bit of a party animal, and shes only 18, so definatley in my range. I have a couple of photos of her, shes pretty cute, I dunno if I should post them or not though, lol. Anyway, basically just wondering what you guys thought about relationships that stem from the Internet, and if you have had any experiences in them? (I know one member has, but I'm not going to disclose who as I'm not sure if they would appreciate it)
Post the pictures LOL! I'm still young so I wouldn't know much about this, but IMO I say don't go out this early. You've just met and maybe you should try talking to her a little more and get more comfortable. Right now it seems like you're a bit hesitant to go out and see her knowing you've never met her before.
Actually I say go for it (if you are interested), sometimes knowing everything about a person before you meet them takes the fun and interest away when you do meet them. It's all the more exciting.
<div class="quote_poster">I-Miss-MJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">no comment. i doubt she'd be happy with her photo being posted either.</div> Well its on like 3 clubbing related websites anyway, so its out there already. And no I havent spoken to her on the phone or via camera yet, if I meet her, it will be at the club, so yeah...
<div class="quote_poster">Mamba Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">So could you </div> NTC turned me down already. <div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Well its on like 3 clubbing related websites anyway, so its out there already. And no I havent spoken to her on the phone or via camera yet, if I meet her, it will be at the club, so yeah...</div> I was thinking more of a permission thing. She is a female also, logic doesn't always come into the equation.
Sounds sketchy. If you do decide to meet up with her, I suggest it be in a very public place(with a group) and that is after you have talked to her on the phone.
Do it. What's the worst that could happen? The 'Net is just another tool for meeting people, no different to chatting to a stranger in a bar who you know nothing about.
<div class="quote_poster">Hunter Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Sounds sketchy. If you do decide to meet up with her, I suggest it be in a very public place(with a group) and that is after you have talked to her on the phone.</div> It will be at the club I got her email from on their message board. I know she is legit, only problem is now, she might have a group there ready to jack me, lol, but f*** it, I'll take em' Anyway, like I originally asked, has anyone else ever been in a relationship as result of the internet?
<div class="quote_poster">Sir Desmond Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Do it. What's the worst that could happen?</div> Gang raped, killed and left in some sewer never to be found again?
<div class="quote_poster">I-Miss-MJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Gang raped, killed and left in some sewer never to be found again?</div> I wouldnt have any problems with being gang raped by a group of girls.
