Girl that probably liked me turns out to be a psycho. I'm stayin away from her.</p> I think I'm gonna chill with girls, the ones in Utica and at MV don't seem to interest me that much (well, except for my best friend).</p> I'd rather wait till I transfer to another college, and find one there.</p>
Went to lunch today with my friend I'm trying to get with, was real nice just to spend some time with her away from a club scene for once, lol.HadamaaadSMSflirtsessiononthebusridehometoo,lol.SeeingheragainnextSaturdaynight,goingtoseeherfavouriteDJ'splay,soI'msureI'llgetuptosomemoremischiefthen,hahaha.
Well guys, I DID IT!! I gots me a girlfriend.I invited my friend over last night to watch some movies, I wasnt sure on whether I should try and make a move or not though, the whole night I was slowly etching myself closer and closer to her, and by about 2.00am I just went for it, started holding her hand, then she started resting on me,thenIkissedher,andsoitbegan.Toldherweshouldprobablygotobedsinceshehasworktoday,sowentuptomybedroom,andthestorybecomesalittlebit18+fromhereAfterthatIjustaskedherifshewantedtotryit,herandmeasacouple,andshesaidshedoes,soyeah!
^^^ Me too. Just keep thinking in your head, there's more fish in the sea. I'm not trippin' anymore, theres somebody out there for everyody.</p>
I've never let a boyfriend stop me... just play the friend role until she starts complaining to you about her boyfriend and tell/show her how you're different. After awhile, if she is attracted to you, she may cheat or break up with the boyfriend and you can rebound that shit like Dennis Rodman.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GMJigga)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> why the hell not? haha theres no such thing as a hollerback man</p> </div></p> </p> Yeah seriously, stop being a woman.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (o.iatlhawksfan)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> I have a bad hair day, but girls were approaching me all day. LOL!</p> </div></p> That makes sense... lol</p> </p> </p>
Whoa, I never knew we had this thread. Alright, a bit of a problem guys. I posted this in another forum, and I'm hoping you guys can give me some more advice on how to handle things:</p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>I'm not sure how to explain what I'm feeling at this moment. Probably sad, angry, mad, and depressed. Alright, so this is what happened. There is this girl in my school that I've liked. We met last year and became friends. That's all. We were never really close or anything last year, but this year was different. We had three classes with each other, and started to become great friends. Not only was she a great friend, but she's probably the nicest girl you will ever meet, plus, she's really pretty. I've been thinking about asking her out for quiet a while, but I'm a little [expletive]. I never was able to build up the confidence to ask her, and was always thinking, well, tomorrow. Or, well, next week. Part of it was because I am a [expletive]. I was so afraid that she would reject me. Now guess what happens. I come to school today and see her holding hands with this other guy in one of our classes. I've always known they were friends, but I never knew there was anything going on between them. Apparently he asked her out yesterday at lunch. So, later today in class, they were sitting together and flirting around and crap, while I was sitting pretty much by myself, feeling angry and sad at how big of a [expletive] I really am. This is a lesson to everyone. If there is a girl you like, go for it. I know this topic has been beaten to death, but it is true. I've heard this said a billion times, but I never really listened. I always thought, well, tomorrow. NO! Not tomorrow! TODAY! For everyone out there, all I've got to say is, if you've got a shot, take it. Take it right away before it comes back to bite you in the ass. I am a perfect example..... Also, for anyone who has been through this before, or something similiar, any advice on how to get rid of this feeling? It's been killing all day. Also, any advice on how to act during the class I have with both of them? Because honestly, I don't ever want to go back to that class again.</div></p> I posted that a week ago, and a week later, I don't feel any better. In fact, I probably feel worse because allI ever think of is "what if." Everytime I step foot into that classroom, I get a sinking feeling in my heart. I'm pretty sure mostly everyone knows how that feeling feels like. I know a lot of you will say that there are plenty of other fishes in the sea, but this girl was one of the only girls that I was actually really close with. Most of the other girls I know are just "mutual" friends. I feel like shit. If anyone knows anything I can do to help feel better, I'd really appreciate it.</p>
Dude I'm going throught the same thing, and have had those feeling many times. I know you don't want to hear, but the fact is there are other fish in the seas, stop thinking about her so much (that's what making you feel worse), and put yourself out there, and meet new girls. Last year there was this girl, I thought she was perfect, she was nice, beautiful, sweet, everything. Guess what I did the same thing you did, I was to scare to ask her, and kept waiting, and eventually she got herself a boyfriend. I was devastated, but I didn't let it put me down, I explore new things, I went out alot, and wouldn't you know it, I found a girl who's eve better for me, then her. At the same time, don't come off as a ***** to her, cause one day, it might not work out with her boyfriend, and she might need someone to lean on, thats when you can make you move. Bottomline, just stay positive, think about other stuff, and don't let this bring you down.</p>
Well the thing is, we used to be really close, but ever since she hooked up with him, we haven't really talked much at all. It also sucks to have both of them in your class and to hear them flirt with each other practically everyday. I'm not trying to let my emotions get towards my actions. I'm usually a pretty nice guy, and I've treated them both exactly like the way I used to. But honestly, it's just tearing me apart inside. I thank you for the advice, but it is A LOT easier said then done. lol </p>
yeah I know it's easier said than done, but you just have to have patience. Trust me I went through, pretty much the same exact thing.</p> good look!</p>
It's so tough being a nice guy. And a bitch with girls. And having little game. Hahaha.</p> There's my best friend who I've talked about frequently on here. Lately, we've become close as ever, talking all the time, although we're always too busy to hang out for more than a little bit.</p> I've actually put alot of thought into it, and figured I'm happy enough just bein best friends with her and talkin to her all the time...but if she shows some real interest, tho, I'd be glad to go out with her. Just real unlikely it's gonna happen..</p>
Anyone ever experienced seeing an ex with a new boyfriend, or talked to an ex with a new bf?</p> That shit is so tough to deal with sometimes. Especially if he's a total douche.</p>
I haven't read a lot of this, but the answer to 98% of the questions in here should be 'stick it in her butt', and if they haven't been, shame on you all.</p>
