LOL, class was over and I walked out, and out of no where, this girl was feeling up on me. At first I thought she might've mistaken me for someone else, but the way she smiled me told me she knew what she was doing. She actually kinda cute, I've seen her a couple of times, I thought she was straight, but never looked at her as a possibility.</p> </p> Bad news: two girls that I have a crush on, both have boyfriends, and both of them were football player...*sigh*, I ain't trippin cause I know , their girls out there, who do want me. Today and yesterday proves it.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Brian)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> Whoa, I never knew we had this thread. Alright, a bit of a problem guys. I posted this in another forum, and I'm hoping you guys can give me some more advice on how to handle things:</p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>I'm not sure how to explain what I'm feeling at this moment. Probably sad, angry, mad, and depressed. Alright, so this is what happened. There is this girl in my school that I've liked. We met last year and became friends. That's all. We were never really close or anything last year, but this year was different. We had three classes with each other, and started to become great friends. Not only was she a great friend, but she's probably the nicest girl you will ever meet, plus, she's really pretty. I've been thinking about asking her out for quiet a while, but I'm a little [expletive]. I never was able to build up the confidence to ask her, and was always thinking, well, tomorrow. Or, well, next week. Part of it was because I am a [expletive]. I was so afraid that she would reject me. Now guess what happens. I come to school today and see her holding hands with this other guy in one of our classes. I've always known they were friends, but I never knew there was anything going on between them. Apparently he asked her out yesterday at lunch. So, later today in class, they were sitting together and flirting around and crap, while I was sitting pretty much by myself, feeling angry and sad at how big of a [expletive] I really am. This is a lesson to everyone. If there is a girl you like, go for it. I know this topic has been beaten to death, but it is true. I've heard this said a billion times, but I never really listened. I always thought, well, tomorrow. NO! Not tomorrow! TODAY! For everyone out there, all I've got to say is, if you've got a shot, take it. Take it right away before it comes back to bite you in the ass. I am a perfect example..... Also, for anyone who has been through this before, or something similiar, any advice on how to get rid of this feeling? It's been killing all day. Also, any advice on how to act during the class I have with both of them? Because honestly, I don't ever want to go back to that class again.</div></p> I posted that a week ago, and a week later, I don't feel any better. In fact, I probably feel worse because allI ever think of is "what if." Everytime I step foot into that classroom, I get a sinking feeling in my heart. I'm pretty sure mostly everyone knows how that feeling feels like. I know a lot of you will say that there are plenty of other fishes in the sea, but this girl was one of the only girls that I was actually really close with. Most of the other girls I know are just "mutual" friends. I feel like shit. If anyone knows anything I can do to help feel better, I'd really appreciate it.</p> </div></p> </p> The feeling sucks, i know.</p> </p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GMJigga)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> "Hey guys, sometimes you gotta take the [infant cat]"</p> Why are you talking to your ex?</p> </div></p> </p> Because she won't stop annoying me. Calling me, texting me, IMing me. She tells me she's still in love with me and shit.</p>
when my ex-girlfriends( haven't had many) do that to me, I just ignore them, let them know it over. It's easier than you think, atleast for me.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (peg182)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GMJigga)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> "Hey guys, sometimes you gotta take the [infant cat]"</p> Why are you talking to your ex?</p> </div></p> </p> Because she won't stop annoying me. Calling me, texting me, IMing me. She tells me she's still in love with me and shit.</p> </div></p> Girls will do that, but if you ignore her(and i know it is somewhat mean), they will move on....eventually..</p> </p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (L)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (peg182)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GMJigga)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> "Hey guys, sometimes you gotta take the [infant cat]"</p> Why are you talking to your ex?</p> </div></p> </p> Because she won't stop annoying me. Calling me, texting me, IMing me. She tells me she's still in love with me and shit.</p> </div></p> Girls will do that, but if you ignore her(and i know it is somewhat mean), they will move on....eventually..</p> </p> </div></p> </p> I ignored her. For a few months, actually. She just won't stop. Even worse, I still have feelings about her. I just wanna let go tho, and move on...it feels like she isn't letting me. I've told her how I feel a million times, she just don't get it.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (o.iatlhawksfan)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> Wat do you mean, ignore her, stay away from, her eventually she'll get the message.</p> </div></p> </p> I stayed away from her, didn't talk to her, didn't see her, didn't hear from her over a few months. And she came back, and started talking to me again. I can't get rid of her. She won't get the message.</p>
You gotta let her know you ain't interested, when she ask you stuff, give her a simple yes or no answer, and leave it at that. Don't make eye-contact, like your not interested in her. Also talk to other girl espically when she's around.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (peg182)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (o.iatlhawksfan)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> Wat do you mean, ignore her, stay away from, her eventually she'll get the message.</p> </div></p> </p> I stayed away from her, didn't talk to her, didn't see her, didn't hear from her over a few months. And she came back, and started talking to me again. I can't get rid of her. She won't get the message.</p> </div></p> Well maybe you can make the best out of a bad situation. See if she'll take you out to dinner. Free meal, why not?</p> </p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Kid Chocolate)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> I haven't read a lot of this, but the answer to 98% of the questions in here should be 'stick it in her butt', and if they haven't been, shame on you all.</p> </div></p> </p> If by "her" you mean your mother, then it has already been taken care of </p> </p> Need to keep that in the Haiku thread.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GMJigga)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (peg182)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (o.iatlhawksfan)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> Wat do you mean, ignore her, stay away from, her eventually she'll get the message.</p> </div></p> </p> I stayed away from her, didn't talk to her, didn't see her, didn't hear from her over a few months. And she came back, and started talking to me again. I can't get rid of her. She won't get the message.</p> </div></p> Well maybe you can make the best out of a bad situation. See if she'll take you out to dinner. Free meal, why not?</p> </div></p> </p> haha yeah, why not</p>
I'm not really used to the whole relationship thing, this is like my first proper relationship, so its all new to me really. It's actually quite a bit daunting, I'm finding that I'm questioning whether I've made the right decision or not at times, I mean dont get me wrong, I really like her, I dunno, I just know that now I'm in a relationship, lots of girls will try to make a move on me, lol, knowing my luck.
Well "will" is in the future-tense. There's no point wasting your time on worrying over something that may or may not happen. You've entered this relationship because you view it as a positive thing. I wouldn't jeapordize it unless its really necessary. Explicitly: don't worry about any future second-girlfriends unless they're actually viable options.</p>
Yeah, I'm just second guessing myself I guess, sure I'll get over it in a few weeks time. I remind myself of George Costanza in this respect, lol.
Is it just me, or is the word love being used so lightly. Some girl will say she's in love with a boys after dating for one week. A week later their broken up LOL. Don't they know, it's called being sprung, not being "in love".</p>
^I was in like in two relationships that both the girls said I love you to me in the first week and then during the finals of school broke up with me. I didn't like them that much but its weird.</p>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (o.iatlhawksfan)</div><div class='quotemain'></p> Is it just me, or is the word love being used so lightly. Some girl will say she's in love with a boys after dating for one week. A week later their broken up LOL. Don't they know, it's called being sprung, not being "in love".</p> </div></p> </p> Agreed. You don't know love in 8th grade... Or 9th.</p>
