Zombie Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

First off let me say Im a regular here...I just rather prefer the less people know the better, even my internet dork friends.

Secondly, I posted in the main forum because I want as many people to see so maybe I can get better advice.

I got a girl pregnant and found out 1 hour ago. Fuck... She was on the pill but recently took antibiotics which screwed up her birth control and presto, pregnant

Ive known her for several years. Its an on again off again "friends with benefits" thing. Ya, I know, weird relationship but thats how it is.

So to make a long story short, she was all pissed off, partly at me for not hanging with her this weekend, and partly for something else. She wouldnt tell me so I drove over there and found this out....oh boy oh boy.

She was all emotional and I tried to calm her down the best I could. I did. We talked. I asked her what her opinion on what to do about this is. She says she isnt having a kid, which I wont lie, was music to my ears. She has said before when her friends with kids visit about how much she wouldnt want a kid...so I believe her...should I?

Anybody here deal with this before? I asked her if she was being honest in her opinion of not having the kid and she said yes. Is there a good chance she could get emotional and change her mind? I cant be a dad right now...I really cant. I also dont want her in the near future say "Fuck off, I dont need your help raising the kid." because Im not a total asshole. If there is a kid in the world because of me then its 50% my responsibility period. I cant ignore that. I told her Im very willing to pay and go to any of the things necessary for an abortion (that word never sounded so ugly)

So anyone have an experience like this? Any tidbits of info would be appreciated especially similar past experiences.

and to the mod who is curious and is gonna figure out who this is by my IP address...just keep it to yourself.

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

Good luck brother!

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

She said she's gonna abort, and you're happy about it. So where's the problem, fetus killer?

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

wow..nice advice for the dude hcp

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

You pretty much covered it. Yes, they can change their mind, people do all the time, and on emotional subjects such as that, it can happen over a period of time. The thing to remember is that in life, things don't always go your way, and sometimes you have to live with decisions you have made, sometimes you have to live with decisions somebody else has made. You don't always get a choice. All you can do is make your position clear, and support whatever decision they make.

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

I think the real problem here is that you turned to the internetz for advice... I dumped my ex because she had an abortion in a pervious relationship. That shit just isn't cool with me. When you fuck you know what can happen and if you dont want to man up then dont fuck.

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

I dont have any friends that have gone thru this (at least that I know of). Im not saying any advice I get here will be the end all be all. It cant hurt to get as much info as possible.

Like I said in the OP...we were being responsible with birth control...shit happened because of the antibiotics.

Im against people having kids who arent financially and emotionally ready. I am neither of those when it comes to having a kid. I would be a disservice to the kid, me, and the world.

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

Ive already offered all of that and actually told her I will pay for it all

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

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Mayk hur wayte a lytle bit beefour sew ewu kan doo it whith ought an-knee rubbhers ore feare uv ghettung hur preggoz.

Shee alreedee iz!!!!!!

Poblum solvud!!!!!

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

I left a redirect on the main forum, but it doesn't seem reasonable to leave it on the basketball forum.

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

I'll tell you one thing, it's good to be a staff member right now.

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

Fuck you

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

Indeed. So the current bid is $5 on the identity...do we have a higher bid?

 

Re: Super OT: Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

Isn't that what got you into trouble in the first place?

 

oh cmon...dont look

 

I already did. Don't worry, though...I can't be corrupted, unless offered money.

 

Forum rule #8 is my favorite one, but you're secret is safe with me, as well.