Hilarious thread. That clip Ed posted was brilliant. I use the word often, but I don't think I've ever said it to a girl as a spiteful comment. Any thing goes within my inner circle, male and female, but that is just trust and friendship. Cussing at each other is like a term of endearment. If I don't cuss at you, I probably don't like you. C word included. In fact, every sunday during the football season, we go to a bar in NE Portland called McGillacuddies (sp?) but we warmly refer to it only as "cunties."