You are so corny. You crack yourself up all the time like I do, huh? Alright, alright already... I was busy socializing Mr. Boss Man!
Spud, for the record, I enjoy spending time with a lot of people who do not attract me in the least. Men, for example (well, I enjoy spending time with some of them). Once again I agree that we all are attracted to different things. And isn't that great? Some men, incidentally, are obviously attracted to muscular women. Look at Candace Parker, or for that matter, Michelle Obama. Yeah, haven't we all known such? I was, I'm sorry to say, in a relationship with a person who was always telling me what was wrong with how I looked. My hair was too long, my breasts were too big, I was too fat, teeth too crooked. You know, it's really a turn off to be told how unattractive you are. Bad bad scene. Maybe it's why I take the extreme, you accept me as I am or get lost.
I appreciate when people try to self-improve, whether it's reading to learn more, or going to the gym to get into better shape, or dressing appropriately to look better. Surgery is a dramatic step and obviously can be done for the wrong reasons, but I don't assume that someone who has had her boobs altered (in either direction) has a screw loose. (Not that you did, maxiep. ) Ed O.
Yeah, I don't have a problem with people who go for elective surgery. I wouldn't, and I wouldn't counsel anyone to have work done, but I don't think it says anything negative about a person if they decide to do it. Looks do matter to people, appearance is a matter of personal style and personal expression. We've reached the technological level where people can, at expense and danger, decide what to look like, physically. It's a risky extension of choosing one's clothing, one's hair style and hair colour, etc. I don't condemn anyone for taking that further step in choosing how they present themselves. I just don't think it's necessary to be attractive to people who care about one.
A lot of women don't get them for "their man", they get them so guys will notice them and they crave the added attention they otherwise wouldn't get.
I deal with them everyday. most are crazy. they don't do it for attention for the most part, most get surgery done because they're self conscious.
It is great and I would add that you can spend time with someone and they can become attractive. Obviously it wouldn't change sexual preference but conceivably I might find Mr. Allen attractive if I spent time with him. And you may go against you're own personal taste if you find a woman who really "gets you". My first real boyfriend was a football player from UW. I decided I wanted him because he was handsome and athletic and was on TV, blah, blah, blah. Let's just say my priorities were a little different in college. He basically said the same things to me to make me "get in line". It was a really long time ago and it's almost like it happened to a friend and not me because I was such a different person then. After a while it can make you too weak to leave. Long story short, I did get strong enough to leave and I have NEVER been that stupid again. Sometimes I get a little annoyed by Oprah but one of her favorite sayings is, "Love doesn't hurt", I like it! Now when I meet someone new I think, if you don't bring "value added" to my life just keep on movin' along buddy.
I've know girls like that. They need to be the center of attention and they like "quantity" not "quality". They need constant reassurance. It can be exhausting. These ladies have self esteem issues and I think it must be horrible to feel like that. I'm not sure it's possible to be in a happy healthy relationship when you're never happy with yourself.
Why does everyone assume it is only females that get breast implants or taht it is alway the female who has pressure on them to look better . . . oh the sexism on this board.
Sweety, we can all see that your man boobs are natural. Have you ever considered a minimizer? It's amazing how much you can improve your shape with the right foundation garments.
Well, we'll support him. Err, I mean help him get it off his chest. That is to say... Well, we're here to talk, anyway.
See this is the kind of pressure I am talking about. Everyone knows how much I want spud . . . but no, I'm not going to minimize my boobs or wear some kind of woman garments for you. Why can't you love me for who I am . . . or at least just sleep with me once.
I never thought it would happen to me, but one night after my penile enlargement, I was checking myself out in the mirror in the hallway and forgot to fully close the front door . . .
