The all important question; what makes a person sexy?

I'm not talking about cute, cute is someone you find a attractive but aren't into sexually. No, I'm talking about sexy. The kind of person that you want as soon as you see them, even if they aren't attractive in the traditional sense.

So what is it that makes a person so irresistible? Is it looks, swagger, confidence, personality, intelligence? Some combination of all of those?

 

God, Anima, you'll probably get as many answers as there are people!

 

Make a guy a Producer and he thinks he's sexy.

Hmmmm............, actually, there may be something to that....

 

I'll paraphrase Justice Potter Stewart when he tried to define what obscenity was: "I can't define it, but I know it when I see it."

So to answer your question, I have absolutely no idea what I find sexy. I just know it when I see it. It's amazing that something that's been such a driving force in my life continues to go undefined.

 

When I think of sexiness I don't think of looks, I think of someone who is smart, funny, and as a real nice swagger about him. The kind of guy who is the coolest person in the room as soon as he enters.

 

all in the eyes.

 

Thanks, I appreciate the compliment.

 

Wait... I swear I've seen this thread elsewhere... I must be tripping balls.

 

You tripped on someones balls? WTF?

 

I forgot to tuck them in.

 

Ankle swingers.

 

Sexy: Breasts
Not sexy: Man breasts

 

Are you using the right pronoun - "he"? Are you a girl talking about guys being sexy, a guy talking about a guy being sexy, or just talking about what makes sexy men and women?

The truth is that men and women are quite different in what they find attractive. Men are drawn to youthful (healthy) looking people Women are drawn to men who are big, strong and leaders. There are evolutionary advantages and reasons for this model.

In truth, there are a lot of aesthetically good looking individuals out there in the world, both men and female. It really is the confidence, sense of humor, and overall personality that pushes someone up from just a pretty face or nice body into someone that is sexy.

Some people say you can be sexy without being that great looking...that's true, to an extent. In order to be sexy I think you have to respect yourself, and thus implies taking care of your body and lifestyle in a decent manner.

Hope that helps a bit.

 

Yes, dude, believe it or not I am a women and I am attracted to guys.

 

Every time you have to tell someone this I lol.

 

The more they like me . . . the sexier they get.

 

And Shrek.