I met this chick at the gym I workout at and she's 40, has a smoking bod, definitely has the whole MILF thing going on for her. She has a kid, who's 4 years younger than me, heck her daughter went to high school with my little brother. Anyways, Sat. night we hung out, went out for drinks, went back to her place (lol I live at home right now) and it was on like donkey kong. She has a sex drive thats out of this world. She's a real down to earth girl, into the same kind of stuff as me, and is always DTF. I don't plan on getting serious with her, and I don't know her intentions with me (hell, I'd just be fine being her sex puppet for awhile). So my question is, how do I keep this thing going, without telling her that I straight up don't want to be her boyfriend, or do you think she is just using me and abusing me (which I'd be fine with)?
That is awesome. I'm down with the whole MILF/COUGAR thing. so hot. She knows what the deal is or she should.
I don't think there is a way to keep it going... just do what you're doing. She's a grown woman and can handle herself. As long as you don't lie, I wouldn't worry about it. If she wants to be your girlfriend, I'd imagine she'll bring it up. I would GUESS it's not very likely. Exclusivity short of bf/gf might be an issue that comes up. Just ride it out man. In a good way. Ed O.
Hang this sign on the wall above your bed before the next time you bring her over. She'll get the point.
Tranny..but he's going to be post-op next year so it's close enough. Zags, you're living at home and boinking a 40 year old with a kid old enough to be your sibling. Stay classy Portland.
its pretty easy actually, don't go on dates with her (unless its a drink at a bar), don't hang out with her during the day and maybe go to her house after the gym and fuck her in the shower!
Yeah, thats what I'm thinking. Just kind of take it for what it is, a fling. I have no problems thus far, her libido is nuts, sends me new dirty pics of herself all day.
Seems as though a lot of older guys get a little pissy when younger guys get involved with their talent pool.
Yes. The more time you spend thinking/worrying about it, the less you're going to savor the "now". Not that you shouldn't ask or think about it at all, but once you've decided how you're going to handle it just enjoy. Ed O.
Well this is 2009, if you think young guys hooking up with older women is some kind of "Portland thing", your sadly confused.
Now you need to see if she will get her daughter to hook up with you guys! That my friend would put you in a whole other pimp status!
You're putting way too much thought into this. You're a hook-up from the gym to her at this point. Sounds like you may be the one wondering if there is a future? From your post, it doesn't appear she is giving you any signs of wanting any relationship outside of you being her Boy Toy for a while. Keep on banging her, if that's what you want, and when it ends, it ends.
