<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (adam_west1321 @ Apr 30 2006, 01:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>christian americans are mostly all hypocrites...christians say your supposed to love thy neighbor..but for american's, you have to support yourself and not others..many many people dont bring they kids to church, many kids are shying away from Jesus Christ, many kids dont see the importance of religion..but the ones that do, know that they'll be forgivin! so its so easy for them to sin and they dont care as long as they ask for forgiveness..</div>You tell me
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (JustBlaze @ Apr 30 2006, 01:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>You tell me</div>alot of that is true..you cant tell me that everyone goes to church and everyone believes in god
I'm not saying it isn't, but why would you bring up people who obviously aren't real Christians and then say that Christians are more likely to be gay because they act like this, people who aren't Christians? It makes no sense and it's ridiculous.
Ok, way to not answer my question and then just say something which I obviously have no logical reply to. I can't make a rational reply to an irrational statement.
ok hereChristians-It is easy for them to become gay because of God's forgiveness. All they have to say is please forgive me and bam! they can be gayNon-Believers-Even easier for them because they could care less if it's a sin or if they can be forgiven or not, they really have no faith..But in the end, I believe your either born gay, or your born straight..the only thing i'm not sure about it bi and trisexuals
Yes, it is becoming a trend - because:1) A trend doesn't always have to be a positive thing - for example: Emo kids - please don't tell me that was not a trend, and it definetly was not a positive thing. Another: doing drugs - also not a good thing, smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, the list goes on.2) Kids are very experimental, people like to experience everything for themselves instead of just seeing it or hearing about it - if they get interested enough, they will try it out. A lot of straight people become bi-sexual just to try how the whole gay thing is, than they'll go back if they dont like it. Also, just like other things like clothes, and drugs -whether it be good or bad, and notwithstanding the circumstnaces, they will do it. The only way I could see someone being born gay is if you had like low testosterone or something -and that has to be very low. Because I really don't have medical knowledge of that stuff, I can't really for sure say that low testosterone would lead to a more gay life style, I can't say it for sure, but thats how I would imagine it to be. Ultimately, a lot of kids try being gay because its becoming a trend.Ok - not to offend anyone about religon or anything but - how can you have merit as an individual if all you had to do was say "God, please forgive me for this sin I've done" and "bam" you're forgiven? That to me is a little weak - unless you are explaining it to me wrong? Someone needs to elaborate on that alittle more - I dont think thats correct.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ReppinTheD @ Apr 30 2006, 01:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Yes, it is becoming a trend - because:1) A trend doesn't always have to be a positive thing - for example: Emo kids - please don't tell me that was not a trend, and it definetly was not a positive thing. Another: doing drugs - also not a good thing, smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, the list goes on.2) Kids are very experimental, people like to experience everything for themselves instead of just seeing it or hearing about it - if they get interested enough, they will try it out. A lot of straight people become bi-sexual just to try how the whole gay thing is, than they'll go back if they dont like it. Also, just like other things like clothes, and drugs -whether it be good or bad, and notwithstanding the circumstnaces, they will do it. The only way I could see someone being born gay is if you had like low testosterone or something -and that has to be very low. Because I really don't have medical knowledge of that stuff, I can't really for sure say that low testosterone would lead to a more gay life style, I can't say it for sure, but thats how I would imagine it to be. Ultimately, a lot of kids try being gay because its becoming a trend.</div>i can understand your second point, but being emo and doing drugs...kids think that stuff might make then cool..kids kno, being gay, will NOT make you cool, you'll be a social outcast..so i dont agree with your first point..and the testosterone thing, lol, i dont know what to think of that, i really dont think it would effect you at all..at least in this perspective...but i do believe you are born gay or straight, and i'm going to stick to it..
how does being emo make you cool? actually its totally the oppisite - at my school so many kids make fun of emos so much, the emos are all depressed socail outcasts - exactly what high school gay students are.
Yes but they have their own little group of emo fags, and then they fit in with the outcasts if you see what I'm saying. It's like they're social rejects, so they create their own little groups in which they fit in. It's basically just a vehicle they use to express their feelings about being rejected by "society," and a lot of people make it out to be the cool thing to do.
sorry i didnt mean for it to come out so snobby i was just sayin that were kind of sidetracking my bad dude..
I would be mad, but I would just accept it and move on. There are worse things in life than having a gay kid.
I would be very dissapointed but I would not hold anything against my son. I would still love him the same as the rest of my children. Really nothing you can do at that point. I would try to guide my son into liking women but in the end it is really his decision.I would hope my other sons would grow up to have wifes. In the end, it wouldnt be a huge deal to me.
