I had to wiki it to find out where the term originated from. San Rafael High School. Back in the 70's.................................man.
You are going to wake up in a tub of ice with no kidneys. Stop trying to get laid off of craigslist. Have you looked to see what big conventions are going to be happening around where you're staying? Find a good convention and hang out in that hotel's bar. You want to be hunting for tourist tang, not trying to hook up with local tang.
Read my lips. That's the LAST thing I'm looking for. I may play rather cavalierish in here, but I know full well what I'm doing.....and the best way to handle it. Trust me, there's nothing to be concerned about. I'll bring you back a wife-beater.
Why not try and get your freak on when you're in Hawaii? All I'm sayin' is be careful of the locals, try and get laid but you want to look for tourists.
I've heard of mean drunks but never a mean stoner. You sure that it's pot you're smoking and not meth or pcp?