[NSFW] Stupid & Random Thoughts

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We all know this guy — or are this guy: in his 30s, affable, attractive, and yet he’s never been in a serious long-term relationship. And as his single status stretches into a third decade, one has to wonder: What’s the deal? Far from being undateable, this guy may simply not be ready to change his independent ways. Or, he may be all too willing to do so — but something’s blocking him. If you feel you may fall into the latter category (or know someone who does), stop worrying about what’s slowing you down and read on to learn about how five types of die-hard bachelors contribute to their perpetually single status and what steps to take to break the cycle.

The workaholic
For the guy who makes work priority number one, a relationship can seem like a hindrance for which he hasn’t the time or energy. It’s likely that he’s set lofty career goals for himself — perhaps finishing medical school, rising to make partner in his law firm or starting his own business — with personal deadlines (say, by age 35). Take it from Doug, 31, of Washington, D.C.: “My main focus is getting to a point in my career where I am stable and accomplished enough to move on to a job that I really want to do,” he says. “I can’t sacrifice or compromise my career path for anyone yet.”

Reality check: Waiting for the “right time” isn’t the solution, according to Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of DSI: Date Scene Investigation. “This guy needs to understand that life doesn’t start when he schedules it,” Dr. Kerner points out. And it needn’t be a lonely climb to the top: rather than derail his career, a supportive mate could provide stability, encouragement and an attentive ear. And for the guy who is working to become husband material, consider this: 91 percent of women in a Match.com survey reported that they tend to fall in love with a moderately successful career person with a balanced life rather than a very successful workaholic.

The partier
For this guy, weekends in Vegas and hitting up the newest parties and clubs has too much appeal to entertain the possibility of settling down. Says self-described “committed bachelor” Sean, 30, of Brooklyn: “I go out to have a good time — mingle, dance, have fun — and not to meet someone.”

Reality check: As the Seans of the world mature, they may notice that their party-hearty peers are becoming fewer in number or that the average age of his social circle — and of his dates — remains constant as he ages. Another warning sign? More numbers in his cell phone for “friends with benefits” than those belonging to actual friends. The bottom line is, for all the fun of casual encounters and late nights out, a partier would do well to understand that a committed relationship has its own joys, too — even excitement and novelty. “These guys are adrenaline junkies, and they fear that a commitment to one person will be no fun,” says Dr. Kerner. “But really getting to know one person in a relationship can be a source of passion and adrenaline, too.”

 

Jack Johnson is the shit!

 

^ ....

 

its bang a black girl week. go forth my e-gents.

 

done it, its aight

 

Then its "get a random skank" pregnant week. Fun!

 

I've never banged a black chick before. I've hooked up with a few but never banged.

 

holy shit, so on friday I was meeting some friends downtown. I was in Little Tokyo in LA and couldn't find a cab..so I walked to the next bar. Walked 6 blocks through Skid row...fucking scary shit. thought i was going to get stabbed.

 

kind of weird...my homie Rich Chou got canned from strikeforce the other week and now Rich Cho got canned from the blazers today.

:MARIS61:

 

After a brief visit to Olive, I have come to the conclusion that Jet is like a piece of corn, it does no good for you and no matter how many times you flush it, it still hangs around.

 

FUCK. so bored. need to get the fuck out of town.

 

What town?

 

LA.

just have anxiety lately about work shit. ships are sinking.

 

I really want some Auntie's Shoyu Chicken from Bamboo Grove! yummy!

http://www.bghawaiiangrille.com/menu

 

I want more tattoo's.

 

what tattoos do you have already?

 

hmmm. thinking of getting a hotel room next to a bar/club notorious for slutty cougars for saturday night. :MARIS61:

 

Ew.

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This is definitely getting crossed off the list for me this summer. Atleast I hope

Any suggestions on how to spend my 21st in downtown Portland? Bars/Clubs/Strip Clubs I should go too?

 

only strip club I like in Portland is the Acropolis. Go there first. Take a cab downtown. Get a hotel room and bar hop.

Don't go to the "hot spots" like couture or whatever, fuck their douchebag bouncers. don't go to dirty either. well, maybe..its pretty fucking wack.

I'm always in Portland for my birthday and I usually go to Aura.