I know Sheryl through my cousin's wife, who was a Kodak All-American in NCAA basketball at the same time Sheryl played for Texas Tech, and she recently changed her Facebook status to 'engaged' to a man. I messaged her, and yes, she is no longer a lesbian and is getting married this summer. What gives?
You messaged her, wouldn't she be the best one to let you know what happened? All you're going to get here are a bunch of assholes saying that maybe her lifepartner got a secks change.
We've partied together, had fun, and had some great talks, but we're Facebook friends, not best friends. My cousin's wife is her best friend. Surprised me, that's all. I wanted to get crandc's take on that, as well as Zags.
Don't you think you'd better demand to see her long-form change-of-sexual-preference application? barfo
A great episode of Roseanne where Leon reveals he's gay to the guys, and Chuck goes "I uh.. I know a gay guy. Name's Mike, lives in Chicago. You know him?" and Leon goes, "Yeah.. gay Mike.. in Chicago."
Maybe I can help. She used to play basketball, right? She was a lezbo during that time and soon after, right? Maybe the longer she was away from the game the more she missed playing with balls, hence her switch to men.
From all the studies done, I have little doubt that it is an innate trait for many. That doesn't mean it is for every individual. Further, sexuality may well be a spectrum...with "pure homosexuality" at one end and "pure heterosexuality" at the other end. Most people may be near one of the end points, but others may be somewhere in between and therefore able to feel attraction, to varying degrees, to either sex. Bisexuality, though that doesn't necessarily mean equal attraction to either sex.
