A judge who is a father, beats his own daughter with a belt

I never even received warnings. My parents made a list and posted it on the refrigerator. It had crime and punishment for such crime listed on it. Ranged from switch to grounding. If I stole, harmed someone not in self defense, broke a law, was disrespectful to an adult, etc. I was marching outside to get a switch. If I was too wild in the house and broke something I got grounded the first time and spanked there after. Knowing in the back of my mind that my mom or dad would spank the shit out of me, made me a very well behaved boy, young man and adult.


Fast forwarding to today, all three of my children get rave reviews about how well behaved they are and wished that other kids were that well behaved. They know if they're not they will get more than a timeout. I also have a son with adhd and anxiety disorder. Not a great combo for him or the household. he has huge rages because he doesn't know how to deal with the anxiety, do I beat him because of it....no because it's not something he wants to do. If I remind him that whether or not he can control the level of his anger at the time, he can't be disrespectful and he continues......A nice swift swat on the ass calms him down ASAP

 

You can't answer the question, or you don't want to answer the question?

What would you do next?


ps I am expecting you to drop this at any moment because there is only one answer.

 

I answered it. You have to hit them. You're right, violence solves all problems.

 

my dad spanked me once for throwing rocks at cars. i deserved it

 

Imagine if he stabbed you with a knife. That would have been more effective.

 

Maybe I should have been more clear.

Would you like to try and answer the question honestly, or are you not able to do that? It is just an opinon I am looking for. Whether I agree with it or not means nothing. The question, and anyone can answer, is after timeouts, groundings don't work, what is the next step?

 

Sensory deprivation. Maybe starve your children until they "get it".

 

You should have only been given a timeout. That horrible man. You go sit in the corner for 5 minutes and think about what you did

 

reaching

 

Ok, don't try to answer. I don't care anymore. It simply proves you have no answer

 

Yeah, maybe you can beat the answer out of me.

 

You should ask my kids what they think of me.

 

Cool, and be childish about it. I'd love to have a real discussion about this when you are ready

 

as you hover behind them with your pinky ring on, clutching your fist? :MARIS61:

 

perhaps the judge already tried the timeout and the light spanking which didn't seem to work. the only logical next step is to step it up a bit, no?

 

In all seriousness, if someone that doesn't believe in spanking would like to try and answer my question, I would appreciate it.

 

No, just holding a belt.