I don't have kids and to frank I don't want to have kids. Now don't get me wrong I love kids but I don't want my own.
Not sure if you do have kids, but really, that was me before I had kids, and other than my nieces and nephews, kind of the same way now. I didn't understand why I was supposed to go nuts over other people's kids, and really never held a baby before my kids were born. Since then, they are the only two people on earth who I would give up my own life for without thinking twice.
i have 3 kids i cant stand any of my friends kids at all, they are spoiled whiny annoying rude violent shitbirds, and most of them stupid my nephew is cool though, and babys are aight
Twice. Once at the fanfest and I think you were with Wookie and BBert. The other at a game outside by the north entrance. I was working so it was kind of brief.
Back to the topic. I've always wanted kids and think I would be a great dad, maybe a pushover. But, I want it to be in my mid-30's. Every time I talk to my mom though she brings up how she wants grandkids. WTF? Kinda some self-centered shit if you ask me. I think its like a thing for chicks in their 50's these days. Her sisters and friends on FB all post pictures of their grandkids and she's jealous and wants some to post pictures of. My theory. Times aren't like they used to be though. Most of my friends I grew up with don't have kids. The ones that do wish they waited longer (not that they don't love their kids).
there is two trains of thought have kids early and they move out before you are 40 have them late and party till youre 30 both are horrible
im lucky enough to be able to sit at work and do pretty much nothing all day. like seriously nothing.
Somewhat related: No English dictionary has been able to adequately explain the difference between these two words. In a recently held linguistic competition held in London and attended by supposedly the best in the world, Samsundar Balgobin, a Guyanese man, was the clear winner with a standing ovation which lasted over 5 minutes. The final question was:.. How do you explain the difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED in a way that is easy to understand. Some people say there is NO difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED. Here is his astute answer…….. When you marry the right woman, you are COMPLETE. When you marry the wrong woman, you are FINISHED, and when the right one catches you with the wrong one, you are COMPLETELY FINISHED!! He won a trip to travel the world in style and a case of 25 year old rum.
The opinions are all over the map, which just goes to show it's a personal matter, and right and wrong are what is right and wrong for each person. My family tend to marry late; both parents were 27, late for their generation. My brother got married well in his 30s, as was his wife. They adopted their daughter, now 14. And they are fine with late marriage and parenting. Papa G, companion animals are not the same as children. Sometimes cats and very young children show similar behavior, but I've never thought of them as the same. What bugs me are pets as status symbols. Sure, I buy a few toys for my cats at the pet store, usually under $5, but the doggie spas and crap like that? Please. It doesn't make the animal happier. Give the animal good food, vaccinations, spay/neuter, a place to safely run, and lots of love, they are happy. You cat is not going to brag around the neighborhood that he/she has a fancier kitty bed than the neighbor's cat!
My mom says the same thing zags. All her brothers and sisters have grandkids and she hounds me for one constantly. Sometimes to the point I have to just walk away from her and not talk to her for weeks. She sees my dumb cousins having kids at 19 and gets all butthurt.
