Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Nov 10 2006, 09:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-family:Tahoma">That's exactly the reason why it's hard. Thanks for understanding, man. Everybody else is ignoring the title "I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend..."</span><span style="font-family:Tahoma">I am that friend. She comes to me with all her problems. I go to her with all my problems. We share personal things with one another.</span><span style="font-family:Tahoma">Yeah, I already do that, too. We go everywhere together. That's how I began liking her in more than just a friendly way. At first, Azzy was just a friend of mine who I spoke to at school. Later on, we began going to one another's cribs and watching NBA games. She doesn't really like basketball, but still sits around and watches... :happy0144:In a matter of months in the 9th grade, we began hanging out basically 12 hours a day and on the weekends, we were inseperable. I don't want to ruin any of that, so I think your other couple of ideas are good. Your plan may work, but we're already past just hanging out. We've done almost everything you've stated, including the "tickling" sessions where we roll over one another on the floor.</span><span style="font-family:Tahoma">I agree that it is a sure "fire way to find out how she feels about" me, but we're past that 2-3 month process. We're at 2-3 years now. 9th grade to now...BTW, just to add on to the "romantic" alone time moments you speak of:We kiss eachother on the lips when we part ways. Am I not the luckiest guy around or what? I kiss the girl I love without her realizing that I enjoy it more than I'm supposed to. :winkglasses: </span></div>hmm so you do ll that and you still don't cosider yourselves together?
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DRob-50-Forever @ Nov 11 2006, 12:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Simply tell her you love being her friend and you think there could be potential for more and you wanna see. Easy as that, and you won't mess up the friendship.</div>That is just basically another way of flat out telling her that you like her as more than a friend. By saying that you want to see if the relationship can go past friendship, you are saying that you feel more for her than just as a friend. And if she doesn't feel the same, it COULD backfire. Now lets say you tell her that you really like her and she says she doesn't feel the same way and not to worry about it. She will still be willing to do the same things she did with you before, only now her mind will be occupied with the thought of you trying to do something every time you do something that can be considered remotely intimate. I.E. The tickling, parting kiss.<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Nov 11 2006, 12:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>hmm so you do ll that and you still don't cosider yourselves together?</div>I kiss pretty much every one of my female friends on the lips when we part ways. Then again, im not 16. I really dont remember being 16 all that much as I have killed the majority of my brain cells from the age of 18-23.
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Becar @ Nov 11 2006, 12:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>As for your kissing. Do you start with a hug and go to a kiss with the hug? If not, start doing this.</div><span style="font-family:Tahoma">We hug all the time. However, when we kiss, we do it really quickly. It's not quick like a peck, though. It's as though we meant it or something, you know? Like "you'll remember that kiss for a couple of hours now until next time we hang out and kiss again".</span><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>hmm so you do ll that and you still don't cosider yourselves together?</div><span style="font-family:Tahoma">May seem confusing, but Azzy and I aren't like that. We could have sex and still not act like it's a big deal. :winkglasses: However, I would act like it's a big deal and want more... :happy0144:You see, it's hard to explain. You'll have to be in my place to understand.</span>
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... hahahaha I think im falling for my best friends girlfriend. oops
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... wow, I have sat here and read the whole fu*kin topic. Some nice advice has been given here.
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... Slap her on the ass and say, "it's time for you to blow me woman."
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GArenas @ Nov 11 2006, 11:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Slap her on the ass and say, "it's time for you to blow me woman."</div>:cry2: <span style="font-family:Tahoma">I tried that... It didn't work.</span> :no3:
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Nov 11 2006, 11:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>:cry2: <span style="font-family:Tahoma">I tried that... It didn't work.</span> :no3:</div> try again
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... dude is she hot? I wanna see if she looks like the typical filipina with like a flat nose lol
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... [DrPhil]Well you're in high school, so you need to just relax. You shouldn't be thinking about relationships or using the L word at all at this point in your life. You should be meeting as many girls as you can and just having a good time without growing attached or getting in relationships. This is the pointin your life where you should be learning more about yourself, finding out what you like in a girl, and most importanly, just having a good time. Plus you say this girl is a good friend, so why jeopordize a friendship? I think when alot of dudes get in their 20s, they look back on high school and wish they had made more of it socially.[/DrPhil]
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... I'm 13 years old so I doubt my opinion counts. Well last year in the 7th grade, I met a girl named Jenn. We got like really close on the first week of school and when I first saw her I knew she was just the perfect girl for me. We became like REALLY close and we didn't wanna know if we wanted to go out with each other because like if something happens, it could ruin the friendship. So we just went for it and the relationship is still working out.My point is that, If you wanna and try to go out with her and say you love her, go for it man. But you never know, she could take it the wrong way and maybe your friendship won't be the same as before.
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Madness @ Nov 11 2006, 08:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I'm 13 years old so I doubt my opinion counts. Well last year in the 7th grade, I met a girl named Jenn. We got like really close on the first week of school and when I first saw her I knew she was just the perfect girl for me. We became like REALLY close and we didn't wanna know if we wanted to go out with each other because like if something happens, it could ruin the friendship. So we just went for it and the relationship is still working out.My point is that, If you wanna and try to go out with her and say you love her, go for it man. But you never know, she could take it the wrong way and maybe your friendship won't be the same as before.</div>Which means, if you go for it, you could be risking a friendship. If you don't, you could be missing a good relationship with a good girl. There are alot of ways of handling it, but it's all kind of risky..
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <span style="font-family:Tahoma">Dammit... Moral of this topico or die. You get screwed both ways.</span>
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Nov 9 2006, 11:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-family:Tahoma">Damn... If you guys have read my other posts on the current girl topics, I've spoken of a chick named Azzy. Well, today, I realized that it's official: <u>I like Aziel</u>. At lunchtime, when she was hanging out with another guy, I couldn't help but keep looking at her. :brickwall: Even when my ex-g/f, MarShawna, who is currently dating my best-male-friend, came over and hugged me and spoke to me, I kept my eyes on Azzy and the other guy... When Azzy finally came over and hugged me, I couldn't help but hold on to her... After lunch, we parted ways and I suddenly became depressed. I couldn't talk.. I have Psychology class after lunch and my teacher is (ironically) currently teaching about love. She noticed I was quiet and asked, "What's the matter, Omar?" I couldn't reply because I didn't honestly know what was bothering me. After class, I went down to the spot I usually catch Azzy before 5th period. We hugged and I suddenly felt better... Now, what I'm trying to get across to you guys is: I NEED HELP, MAN! Azzy and I have been best friends since... Hmm... I dunno... I guess, since I moved to Moreno Valley back in the winter of 2003 (we were both 13 yrs old). I don't want her to know I like her and for me to ruin our current relationship, you know what I mean? Now be serious when you post please: Should I admit I like her or keep my feelings bottled up like old wine? I mean, every time I see her now, I can't help but want her... Not only sexually, but in any "want" way ever created by man. Also, does anyone here have or ever had such a problem?</span></div> LMAO come on bro, what are you 15-16? You don't know what love is. I'm not saying I do either, but I find this very funny, no offense. You are a highschool sophomore or junior, give it up. You are acting like you are a 25 year old person from a soap opera that is about to propose to someone. You like this girl, great. Love? Haha.
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... Haha CelticBalla is soooooo right. You're obviously in high school, have no idea what you want, and you don't even know what love is. If you seriously have a thread about this on a message board, I highly doubt 1) its even true, and 2) you even like her. I personally would never post about my friends on here, guys or girls, not because I don't like you guys, but because that's just my life, we're here to talk basketball, not pointless high school relationships. If you don't know how to solve you're problems with telling her you like her and etc. you really suck with girls. All of my friends know exactly how I feel about them. I'm half done my senior year in high school, and I have liked a few girls before, nothing ridiculous. But if you were smart, you wouldnt try to have 824389 girlfriends in high school, especially since you know its f*cking HIGH SCHOOL, relationships last about one week in high school, except for a very select few. It's easy to tell which ones will last and which ones won't. Just from hearing the posts on the subject from you, it seems as though you will be trying to get with another girl next week. I can safely tell you that you don't even love her.I know I am one of the few on here that appreciates true love and all that stuff. I haven't had 843897598324 girlfriends, I have a bunch of friends that are girls and I love some of them to death, but that's completely different than LOVING someone in HIGH SCHOOL. In the past I have wanted to go out with girls but realized, what the hells the point? It won't last and I don't want to have a high school relationship, I want to have a real relationship. Love doesn't exist in high school, so you should just stop trying.But like I said before, if you need help from people on a basketball message board to get a girl, you completely suck with girls and have no business asking this girl out anyways. This is what I can't stand about high school, I feel like I'm the only one not into this fake relationship horse sh*t.
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... What I would do in 3 easy steps is:Step 1 : Hit her with a frying panStep 2 : Have your ways with herStep 3 : Run and if your ever asked about it DENY DENY DENY!
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... [quote name='yankshater213' post='196119' date='Nov 12 2006, 07:09 AM']Haha CelticBalla is soooooo right. You're obviously in high school,[/quote]<span style="font-family:Tahoma">Yeah, uh... Thanks for stating the obvious, buddy. I already stated that I'm a 16 year old.</span>[quote name='yankshater213' post='196119' date='Nov 12 2006, 07:09 AM']have no idea what you want, and you don't even know what love is. If you seriously have a thread about this on a message board, I highly doubt 1) its even true, and 2) you even like her.[/quote]<span style="font-family:Tahoma">I was only asking for some help because I didn't want to ruin a great friendship. sh*t... If you don't like the fact that I'm asking for advice, it doesn't bug me. I only asked me on a message board because none of you all know me and will most likely never meet me, so you can't judge me at all. You can't say, "Well, Omar, you do mess around a lot with girls..." :no3: Y'all don't know me. I asked for advice here because:1) We'll never meet, so you can't really get to know me at all.2) You can't judge me without jumping to conclusions.3) Since none of you know who I am, you don't know who Azzy is and if I decide to stick with her and I just being friends, none of you can go up to Azzy or myself and ask us about our relationship.</span>[quote name='yankshater213' post='196119' date='Nov 12 2006, 07:09 AM']I personally would never post about my friends on here, guys or girls, not because I don't like you guys, but because that's just my life, we're here to talk basketball, not pointless high school relationships. If you don't know how to solve you're problems with telling her you like her and etc. you really suck with girls.[/quote]<span style="font-family:Tahoma">If you don't like to ask for advice from people who can't judge you, that's on you. Leave me out of your judgements, b. Also, this is a basketball forum, but this certain section is title "Off Topic". I believe that means that we can discuss whatever we want to.I don't suck with girls. I just suck with keeping close friends away from relationships. Don't worry about me, okay? Do you; I'll do me.</span>[quote name='yankshater213' post='196119' date='Nov 12 2006, 07:09 AM']But if you were smart, you wouldnt try to have 824389 girlfriends in high school, especially since you know its f*cking HIGH SCHOOL, relationships last about one week in high school, except for a very select few. It's easy to tell which ones will last and which ones won't. Just from hearing the posts on the subject from you, it seems as though you will be trying to get with another girl next week. I can safely tell you that you don't even love her.[/quote]<span style="font-family:Tahoma">Once again, you do you and I'll do me, man. Plus, isn't a person's social life in high school meant to be vast and everlasting? After high school, you get married and sh*t, so you're stuck with one girl, unless you're unfaithful. I plan on f*cking as much as I want to. Don't worry about me, man.</span>[quote name='yankshater213' post='196119' date='Nov 12 2006, 07:09 AM']Love doesn't exist in high school, so you should just stop trying.[/quote]<span style="font-family:Tahoma">I haven't even tried yet, so I don't see how I can even think about stopping... </span>[quote name='yankshater213' post='196119' date='Nov 12 2006, 07:09 AM']But like I said before, if you need help from people on a basketball message board to get a girl, you completely suck with girls and have no business asking this girl out anyways. This is what I can't stand about high school, I feel like I'm the only one not into this fake relationship horse sh*t.[/quote]<span style="font-family:Tahoma">I'm not asking for advice on "getting" the girl. I'm asking whether or not it'd be wise to ask her out, seeing how she is my best friend. By best friend, I don't just mean a person I am really down-to-earth with. I mean, we hang out basically everyday, do basically everything together and are basically inseperable when we chill together. It's not my fault people were giving me advice on how to get her. I wasn't asking how I should get Azzy. I'm asking whether or not it'd be wise to ask her out. I don't want to ruin a great friendship, b.END OF STORY, b.You judged me without knowing me. Calm down, b. Just because everyone is giving me advice about how to get girls doesn't mean I need it. I need help about the topic title. Would it be wise to ask her out, knowing that if she didn't feel the same way, we most likely would end our friendship?</span>
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... <span style="font-family:Tahoma">Nothing serious yet, Dmoney. Azzy is doing a play, called "Antigone", for school and I'm going to go see it on Thursday. I'm not positive whether or not asking her out would be wise. We're going to spend Thanksgiving weekend together, though.</span>
Re: Oh, No... I think I'm beginning to "love" my best friend... How old are you? 16?Cool. Lemme see what your woman looks like.
