We had our own club in shop class, we got girls in class to pull their skirts up and show us their panties. I'll never forget it. There was a room that was semi private just off of the shop. Oh the glorious days spent doing nothing but talking girls into stuff. Tame by today's standards I bet.
I stopped being such a dick my junior and senior year. I ate lunch with all the girls I liked and my friends would hang out in the parking lot. They'd get picked on by other guys and someone would come get me and I'd chase them off.
You wouldnt last at my job. Every black guy on my shift is called the n word by some drunk redneck and uncle tom by some drunk black guy. I was told I rape n word children by some old white bitch. And for some reason drunk black guys always think im mexican. Shit makes me lol. It's just fucking words man. The bull shit people say has no effect on my life, but it does show their character, which is just pathetic, but that's why they aren't my friends lol Bullying on a physical level sucks but it does make the recipient tougher. I never bullied as a kid, always stuck up for the under dog (was destined to be a blazer fan) I feel like it made me a good man who stands by what he feels is right regardless of consequence.
Why is no-one reporting that shit? MFs would be gettin' fired it were me. We all have audio recorders now. Where the hell do you work??
Security at a hospital. Drunk patients and mental patients basically say anything they want and we just take it. not only do we take it from then but the nurses we protect act like we dont do anything. At the end of the day you just have to realize they are a pile of shit and you aren't. I do still cringe when some fucking white guy blurts an n bomb at one of my guys though. It just makes me fucking sad. I wish we were past that bullshit as a society, I've never seen a guy lose it though, so big props to us under paid law enforcement types for keeping our cool.
I sometime wonder how I made it out of high school. I got the living sh-t kicked out of me on a regular basis, both mentally and physically. I basically came to the conclusion that anybody with status or power over you is going to use it more often than not. I stay away from large groups. I make sure that I plan ahead to avoid drama. And I always have an out whenever people go off.... And I would advise anybody in a weak position to do the same.
People at my work are always saying the n word. Just the other day a guy said the n word like 100 times to a room full of 1300 people. He got a standing ovation.
Unfortunately in school it's be a bully or get bullied. I used to be a giant wuss when I was 8 so I got bullied. Then I got extremely thick skin and thought I was the shit, had a ton of friends, and people started being scared of me because they thought if they fucked with me my posse would get them. High school is such a joke.
I appreciate the Tom Waits reference. Seeing that made me realize how long it's been since I heard him, so I've just spent the last couple of hours listening to him... barfo
Aw, you won't even fire the asshole pooping on the community toilet seat. Now you are going to get big and bad over few words? Bull.