Is she too young to date?

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  1. riverman

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    he's 41 prez....he knows where it goes
     
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    Ask if she wants to Netflix and Chill.
     
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    Walla Walla is a small town where the gossip grapevine travels faster than the speed of light. My guess is, if she is really interested in having a romantic relationship with you, she has probably hinted about it to several of your mutual friends.

    I would ask your mutual female friend/s their opinion on the subject. They may already know about her level of interest in you, or can find out for you.
     
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    If she is cute and in shape, and you are old and out of shape, she is probably not really interested in you romantically. Men are much more prone to mis-interpet friendliness for romantic interest.
     
  6. Natebishop3

    Natebishop3 Don't tread on me!

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  7. Further

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    I am defiantly the more immature out of the two of us.

    This is a big issue for me. The is a very small industry, it's ok to date, but one bad fuck up and I'd have to move to another state. Of course, she really doesn't strike me as the crazy/vindictive type, and I'm not a ass to women I date so most likely a breakup will be fine.

    It is for some people and some circles, I'm still new so I'm not sure just how pervasive it is. certainly more common amongst the younger crown (she's 25).

    We actually aren't students together. I am studying Enology and Viticulture, (grape growing and wine making) she is getting a Masters of Wine, which is more what sommeliers get. But she works fairly high up in a quality winery here and is friends with all my student buddies.

    HA, that's almost reason enough to turn away now.

    I hate that high school shit. I think she digs me, and it's fine if I'm wrong, I'll just get a nope, and that would be easy to get over as long as I'm nice and don't persist if turned down. There would be an awkward week, that's it.
     
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    Very possible, but that's what I though after the first several hints, but now I'm feeling more confident. And I am not in terrible shape like I used to be. I look much better in clothes though, and that's the only way she's seen me. I've lost 100+ lbs so I have much more flab than it appears with clothes on.
     
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    If she's incredibly ugly....all the advice is meaningless...it's a courtesy
     
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    The first consultation on this board is always free to members, but this is not the first time you have come here for professional counseling.

    Please PM Denny Crane and his girl will set up your account and schedule you a thread time. :smiley-doctor:
     
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    ...as long as she is a Blazers fan, if not then she is most definitely too young!
     
  12. Further

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    hahaha,



    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find her hot, but I know another friend of mine doesn't. She is a nerd, but a hot one with a tight body.
     
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    She probably wants to set you up with her younger sister.
     
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    Not into major sports, but she is also very independent so I doubt she'd care if we have different hobbies.
     
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    Oh well, just using this place as a sounding board, I'm not going to actually listen to any of you freaks.
     
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    You are motivated towards improving yourself and chasing a passion. Girls love that

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    Go for it. The worst thing that can happen is you'll be unbelievably embarrassed.
     
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    You'll regret not pursuing

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  20. riverman

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    until you close the deal..then you'll just snore and feel guilty
     

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