Well no, im married now and treat her like a princess. What i am saying is that women are not some sort of gatekeeper to "sex" as you stated. There are multiple situations where men do turn down women in the single world.
And if they go in with that attitude they end up as crazy cat ladies after they are in their late 30s and lament about not being able to "find a good guy" anymore.
I had an ex gf that was my high school sweetheart, contact me when i was like 23. She wanted to take me out in a limo, take me to whatever restaurant i wanted to eat for dinner, show me great sights in portland and show me how much she had changed. Hell no. I would have either ended up in a ditch dead. Or she would have turned that around on me and had me put in jail. That chick was crazy. (For the record, i think the gentleman in this rape case is an idiot)
A few years ago I was at a bar in Madrid, Spain. There was a girl (australian) kind of hovering by me and I was talking to the other people in the group, I just put my arm around her and eventually started making out. We were out of the bar within 5 minutes. We were just stumbling around the city, drunk (well I was drunk I don't know about her but she seemed fine) making out in various streets, alleys, etc (my first night there and I had no idea where I was). Went to "check the oil" before heading back to my hotel. Anyway, I get her back, get her top off and she starts saying she doesn't want to have sex. Fine, I tell her "We don't have to do anything you don't want to do". Well, that turned her on more and she said to fuck her, so I did. Afterwards she kind of appeared regretful for going back and having sex that fast (maybe an hour or so) or maybe it sucked who knows but probably regret for sleeping with a guy that quick? I invited her to spend the night but she wanted to go back to her hostel so I walked her back. A week later I was in another city in Spain and we bumped into their group and apparently the girl was all pissed at me for some reason. who the fuck knows
Okay, you got me there... men do turn women down on occasion. On the other hand, women can pretty much go out in dirty sweats (with bed head and bad breath), approach a few men in a bar with the line, "Let's do sex" and bat close to a thousand with it.
Guys will fuck anything. But a girl can't go anywhere in dirty sweats and find a guy to date her more than twice. We're way pickier on who we fuck versus who we date.
No, I think it's because men, in general, want sex more than women, in general. It's all about supply and demand.
Hmm, yet I have heard from other sources that women want sex just as much as men, but don't act on it. Interesting....
Guys are probably hornier and willing to fuck anything hence the whole gay guys having anonymous sex in bathrooms and bath houses. If girls were that willing we would probably be doing the same thing too.
He did it again in Europe, got 1 out of 200. Just like in sales--every no just gets you that much closer to the yes, I guess.