<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>I'm not getting at what your trying to say? We were like very tight and liked talked about eveything and chilled a lot together and stuff. and we were practically dating, but now quite.</div>I'm just reading what your saying and it's weird. You say you were basically dating and one day she says you don't have to wait for me and you just stop talking to her. Just like that, no explanation. I mean come on. If you were good friends or dating, then you would have at least questioned why(the clear cut reason I don't get it) and continued some kind of relationship. Not just end it at a drop of the hat.I would call loose, not "very tight."
This is the way I see it... nobody can really tell you what you should do in this situation. Just go with your instincts. If you want to give her a rose, just give it to her. If not, then just go up to her and casually strike up a conversation with her and basically try to see where you guys stand. The rose thing really depends on the girl. I give roses to some of my girlfriends on Valentine's Day even if they have boyfriends or if we're just friends, etc., and some of them I don't. It just depends on the girl and only you can judge what would be best. If you can't, just go with your gut feeling. What's the worst that can happen? You guys really aren't talking anymore, so it's not as if the relationship is going to get any worse... right?By the way, do you like this girl or are you just looking to become friends with her again or whatever?
Here's my opinion, hate it or love it: She's probably already forgotten about you, women tend to do that. Some other guy has probably already bought her a bunch of shiny things and her woman's ADD kicked in and kicked you out of her mind. If you really give that much of a crap about her, send a card along with a note that says like 'will we ever be friends again', etc. Otherwise forget about it and find someone else. You mentioned that other girls you 'go after' get BFs, well just make and keep friends with those that you really like and it's like a 90% guarantee they'll break up at some point soon anyway.Also, I should ask, how old are you?
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Clangus @ Feb 13 2007, 06:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>give her a rose shaped like a penis- since we all know that what you really wanna give her </div>lol nice, but then again what if he is caught holding it... not a cool sight indeed.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Ginger Jesus @ Feb 13 2007, 05:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Here's my opinion, hate it or love it: She's probably already forgotten about you, women tend to do that. Some other guy has probably already bought her a bunch of shiny things and her woman's ADD kicked in and kicked you out of her mind. If you really give that much of a crap about her, send a card along with a note that says like 'will we ever be friends again', etc. Otherwise forget about it and find someone else. You mentioned that other girls you 'go after' get BFs, well just make and keep friends with those that you really like and it's like a 90% guarantee they'll break up at some point soon anyway.Also, I should ask, how old are you?</div>I'm almost 17.
Forget her man..obviously she doesn't want anything, or she doesn't care.Theres more women out there, give some other girl you talk to alot, and care about and stuff a rose
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC? @ Feb 13 2007, 12:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Even if it did scare her away (which I doubt it will) They don't talk anyway, so things wouldn't be any different than they are now.That's the worst case scenario, the best case is that she finds it sweet and gives him a shot. He has nothing to lose, I would take that chance.</div>Man tony, you sound like a marriage counselor or something. But I agree bro, it cant hurt.
Yeah, man she's probably already got another boyfriend or three, so just do your best to forget about her.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Feb 14 2007, 11:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS">Dammit... Someone deleted my post! Damn you mods! </span></div>lol what did you say?
<span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS">I told him to say, "Yo', bi*ch! What in the world gave you the right to dump me like that?" Then I said that he ought to proceed to rape her violently.</span>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Ginger Jesus @ Feb 14 2007, 10:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Yeah, man she's probably already got another boyfriend or three, so just do your best to forget about her.</div>She hasn't gotten a new boyfriend lol. And I've been trying to forget about her but honestly its been hard. I had like 3 others and they were simple to get rid off, but its just this particular girl some reason. I think I need help. Ballaholic?