When I was in high school, I thought I was awesome so I always approached women first and went out of my way to talk to all chicks I thought was hot. Now I'm alot more layed back, and wait to see how things play out. You guys will learn this, when you go to a club, you have to scope things out first before you go hitting on women. That's the quickest way to engage in a fight, or piss a female off is to go straight in talking to them without evaluating things first.
I'll go and talk to them (it's much easier if they're in at least 1 class of mine) as long as I know there's SOME chance I could get with them. Even becoming friends is fine with me, it's alot easier if you have a friend who knows them too.Usually for me the girl's always end up just wanting to be really good friends, which is fine by me...of course I've had girlfriends, but more than half the time that ends up happening.
Yeah that's a good idea. To become friends with them first. Than maybe things get more serious later on.
Depends on the age. With 13-15 year olds it's better to become friends first. 16+ it's better to just strike up a conversation, hang out a couple times and then ask them out pretty early on.
It's easier to have a lot of options instead of limiting yourself to one girl you have little/no chance with...you'll just end up making yourself feel like sh*t and getting depressed over it..just approach different girls..find one you have a chemistry with and ask her out on a date..and work from there
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (P0W3RBALLIN @ Mar 9 2007, 06:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I don't really care for them unless I can hint that they have interest in me too. But I do flirt with the occasional random girl just for fun.</div><span style="font-family:Century Gothic">Same here. I wouldn't necessarily consider my "game" as flirting; it's on some real sex talk. I let everything loose (no homo) and tell the girl everything I have to say to her.</span>
okay, no girl, unless they are horny as hell, finds sex talk attractive when your trying to hook-up with them for a date or something...especialy girls around our ages.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (mavsfan1000 @ Mar 10 2007, 01:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Yeah that's a good idea. To become friends with them first. Than maybe things get more serious later on.</div>That never works. Once you are too good of friends with a girl, they dont look at you in any other way. Go with what the pestilence said. Its 100 percent true.
Becoming friends first works around my age. That's what almost everybody does at my school around my age. It's easier for me to make a girl like me by spending time with them around school and getting to them them better.
<span style="font-family:Century Gothic">I know you dudes still remember Aziel, right? I know most of you doubt she exists. Whatever... I still have to mention this since it's become a huge deal to me:Aziel and I have been text messaging to one another a lot recently. As a matter of fact, I think we text eachother with our cell phones more than we actually speak to eachother in person now. These are a few of our interesting text messages:Aziel (March 8, 2007 2:03 PM): What do u think of me as a person? lolMe (March 8, 2007 3:23 PM): I think/know that u r real cool, down 2 earth, sexy, etc. Y do u ask?Aziel (March 8, 07 3:24 PM): Lol stop playing .. 4 reals tho cause I think your pretty coolMe (March 8, 07 3:31 PM): Honestly, I like u... But dont worry: I m not 1 of those losers who will continuously bug u bout dating.Aziel (March 8, 07 3:32 PM): Yeah.. Well u never talk to me about this stuffMe (March 8, 07 3:34 PM): I no. I dont like getting rejected, so I'm always careful with what I say 2 u.Aziel (March 8, 07 3:35 PM): Yeah? Well u shudnt be or whateverMe (March 8, 07 3:41 PM): I'm not shy or n e thing. I just dont wanna b like phillip, u no? Hey! @ least I admitted I like u. I'mnot hiding n e thing.Aziel (March 8, 07 3:45 PM): Lol yeah but u never talk to me like that u kno?Me (March 8, 07 3:55 PM): I dont want 2 make u feel uncomfortable, like, "oh, Umar likes me 2?" I dont want 2 ruin your day by buggin u about how much I like u. That'd be awkward 4 u, right?Aziel (March 8, 07 3:56 PM): Uhm no cause I guess im usd to itMe (March 8, 07 4:00 PM): LOL I know u r. However, I'm not really used 2 getting denied. Y do u ask? Did I not play it off good enogh & u realized I was hiding sumthing from u?Aziel (March 8, 07 4:00 PM): Lol but sometimes I can tell these thingsMe (March 8, 07 4:05 PM): Word. I'm a bad actor. I'll try harder. U c, I dont wanna bug u about n e thing. It's just not me even though I can get annoying @ times.Aziel (March 8, 07 4:05 PM): Lol .. I dnt kno how to say what I want to sayMe (March 8, 07 4:08 PM): Dont trip. Say what u have 2. I wont judge u.Aziel (March 8, 07 4:13 PM): Lol lets get to kno each other so u dnt trip on your wordsMe (March 8, 07 4:15 PM): O I wont. So my charm is appealing, eh?Aziel (March 8, 07 4:15 PM): Foshofosho lolMe (March 8, 07 4:27 PM): U dont no though. Snoopy was telling me that I need 2 learn how 2 hide it better. I tried really hard 2 act like I dunno what he is talking about.Aziel (March 8, 07 4:29 PM): Lol well I cudnt tell but sometimes I get these feelings u kno?<span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:100%">Next day (Friday)</span>Aziel (March 9, 07 3:43 PM): im bored and im still at schoolMe (March 9, 07 3:45 PM): O. Im going 2 hemet 2 c my gramps. Y r u still @ school?Aziel (March 9, 07 3:49 PM): 4 theatre.. I dnt feel like being here right now...Me (March 9, 07 3:58 PM): Oh, yeah. 4 your play.Me (March 9, 07 4:31 PM): Didnt Snoopy ask u out last semester? I was making fun of him about it all day yesterday because he got rejected.Aziel (March 9, 07 4:32 PM): Oh lol but wudnt it be weird IF we went out since were all friends?Me (March 9, 07 4:34 PM): I guess so. I was just wondering, though. No "biggie" like bad boy.Aziel (March 9, 07 4:34 PM): Lol I guessMe (March 9, 07 4:43 PM): U like sum dude named "hot cheetos," right?Aziel (March 9, 07 4:45 PM): Lol! I dnt kno cause I barely get to see him and I kind of like both of u but yeah u guys kind of kno each other tooMe (March 9, 07 4:47 PM): Really? What's his real name?Aziel (March 9, 07 4:47 PM): Lol its samAziel (March 9, 07 5:35 PM): Yeah..Me (March 9, 07 5:37 PM): Word. That sux.Aziel (March 9, 07 5:36 PM): Lol how comeMe (March 9, 07 5:38 PM): It just does...Aziel (March 9, 07 5:38 PM): Mmm...Me (March 9, 07 5:41 PM): I hate competition. I dont want 2 compete 4 a person's affection.Aziel (March 9, 07 5:43 PM): Yeah. But I dnt want u to feel like u hav to but I feel bad...Me (March 9, 07 5:46 PM): Y do u feel bad? U're entitled 2 like whoever u want 2 like. Im not sum1 who can force u 2 like sum1 else. Dont worry.Me (March 9, 07 6:08 PM): I hope it doesn't sound as if Im jealous. Im really not... Just in a bad mood, that's all. I dont want u 2 think Im suddenly mad @ u.Aziel (March 9, 07 6:10 PM): Oh ok good then cause I didnt want it to be like that? I dnt kno how to say it..Me (March 9, 07 6:19 PM): B like what? 2 guys fighting over u? Dont worry about such things. U said so yourself that it'd be weird 4 the 2 of us 2 b 2gether. Im cool w/ whatever. your choice.Aziel (March 9, 07 6:19 PM): Lol not fighting over me.. the makes me sound very concietd haha no but I didnt wanto end up liking both u guys!Me (March 9, 07 6:22 PM): Oh. Do as u please.Aziel (March 9, 07 6:22 PM): But then u make me sound mean!Me (March 9, 07 6:25 PM): Naw. Im saying u should do whatever will make u happy. Dont try 2 make every1 happy. you will never b successful then.Aziel (March 9, 07 6:25 PM): Yeah your right.. Can I have both of u then? Lol jus playingMe (March 9, 07 6:30 PM): Im evil. No1 can have what I cant have. Please dont play me. Go w/ sam. I dont like getting played.Me (March 9, 07 6:54 PM): My fault. Now that I read thru my messages, I realized I made u seem like a bad person, like u're tryin 2 play me. I'm sorry. I guess I got carried away a bit..Me (March 9, 07 7:13 PM): Aww... I can tell your mad now. Im sorry! I just dont want u 2 pretend u'd pick me over sam. I mean, Aziel, Im not stupid. I'm really sorry if I made u mad.Aziel (March 9, 07 10:19 PM): Lol u really thought I was mad at u? Im sorry now! I was busyMe (March 9, 07 10:27 PM): U scared me w/ that call. I was asleep here in my gramps' room. Suddenly my cell began vibrating (no homo) I'd call u back but nurses dnt let visitors use cellsAziel (March 9, 07 10:31 PM): Oh lol sorry but are we cool tho?Me (March 9, 07 10:33 PM): Of course<u>Notes</u>:- When Aziel said, "Lol lets get to kno each other so u dnt trip on your words," she means as "lovers." We're already best friends and know one another perfectly. She just wants to know me as a "boy friend" before I'm officially her boy friend.- I asked her about that "hot cheetos" dude because a girl in my science class told me during school that Aziel liked some guy in her P.E class; turns out Aziel still likes the guy. I asked her who "hot cheetos" was, but the girl couldn't remember his real name.- I actually was jealous. I just didn't want Aziel to know.- Aziel is in a school play. She has to stay after school every day to practice for it. I'm actually going to go see the play on Thursday.- My grandpa is on his deathbed in a nursing home in Hemet, California. I've been visiting him daily since he went there (which was on Wednesday, March 7th, 2007). I'm the only person in my entire family who hasn't cried about my grandpa being on his death bed. My gramps and I are close and everyone in my family is guaranteeing that I'll start crying over his death any time now.- Aziel called me after sending me this message: "Lol u really thought I was mad at u? Im sorry now! I was busy". I was asleep in my grandpa's room on a chair. I spent the night in the nursing home.Overall, though, Aziel finally admitted she likes me. I want to date her, but on Friday, when we were at lunch together, I kept staring at her and she asked, "What's on your mind?" I replied, "You." Then she said, "Omar, if we date, do you think that'll ruin our friendship?" I said, "Maybe... Why?" She said, "You're going to ask me out, right?" I thought about it for a cool second and then said, "Not yet." Aziel replied, "Why not? You think our friendship can be ruined?" I said, "Yeah, we've got something going here, I guess..." Then I lied that I have to use the restroom and walked off. I was kind of mad after that.</span>
^ Big bullsh** right there. I hope you spent hours making that up.But really, I believe that. Not like it's a big deal to believe it or not.
I had the biggest crush on my older sisters friend, took my time. About 4 years to actually make a move. Dated her for almost 3 years, then dumped her when I got sick of it.
I always approach them and try to get something going between us. I have never had a problem talking to girls, my friends think I have a special talent at it. What's the worst that could happen if you approach them? If they say no, let them say no and move on.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC? @ Mar 12 2007, 01:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I always approach them and try to get something going between us. I have never had a problem talking to girls, my friends think I have a special talent at it. What's the worst that could happen if you approach them? If they say no, let them say no and move on.</div>maybe thats why your good at it, you never consider the negatives...while other people always factor in different things that might happen and they keep thinking and thinking and end up never even talking to the girl.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC? @ Mar 12 2007, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I always approach them and try to get something going between us. I have never had a problem talking to girls, my friends think I have a special talent at it. What's the worst that could happen if you approach them? If they say no, let them say no and move on.</div>... I thought melanie was your only gf?
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Something-To-Say @ Mar 12 2007, 04:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>... I thought melanie was your only gf?</div>Are you serious? Check out the ex-girlfriends thead...
