I know this may sound weird asking advice from people I don't even know.......but I got a big problem. These "friends" of mine... well they basically treat me like sh*t day in and day out. Hit me multiple times, (not seriously), but they do and kick me and think it's funny. I went along with it as I thought it was just a joke. A few days later the guy told me he'd stop if I slapped this other kid, and I was like "WTF I'm not messed up like you:"...but anyway I can't fight back because I am not getting kicked off the football team. I can't stop going around there because one day I did and they looked all over for me and found me and then dragged me in the bathroom and hit and kicked me...it's complete bullsh** and has been going on for about 2 months...wtf should I do?
when I first started reading I was going to say just spazz on em but I guess that aint an option. obviously the thing adults would tell you to do is tell a teacher, or a family member, or even tell your friends how they really feel, but lets be honest, this is the 21st century and if you do any of those you're going to get laughed at...so best advice I got is try to avoid em and just find a new group of people to hang around until after football then beat the sh*t outta em.
<span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%">TELL AN ADULT</span>Tell an adult you're cool with - who understands teenage guys and will not panic or do some dorky tell on them thing. Hopefully they can help. If that doesn't help go to your religious leader and seek help from him/her.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GeraldGreen5 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>when I first started reading I was going to say just spazz on em but I guess that aint an option. obviously the thing adults would tell you to do is tell a teacher, or a family member, or even tell your friends how they really feel, but lets be honest, this is the 21st century and if you do any of those you're going to get laughed at...so best advice I got is try to avoid em and just find a new group of people to hang around until after football then beat the sh*t outta em.</div>Avoid them until November????? And also I already tried to
Next time just pull out an AR-15 or an M-16.They'll stop bothering you.Or just stop bathing for a few months. They won't even want to go near you.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Mar 20 2007, 03:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%">TELL AN ADULT</span>Tell an adult you're cool with - who understands teenage guys and will not panic or do some dorky tell on them thing. Hopefully they can help. If that doesn't help go to your religious leader and seek help from him/her.</div>Like GG5 said.......it's the 21st century... that stuff doesn't fly no more
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (KobeBryant_24 @ Mar 20 2007, 06:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Like GG5 said.......it's the 21st century... that stuff doesn't fly no more</div>Did you read the whole thing? Tell an adult who ain't gonna do that stuff. Anyway. Who cares? <span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%">Being laughed at > Being bullied at</span>Besides, you can sue the bullies. If an adult tells them to stop and they continue to do it you can even call the police.
I kind of would try avopdiding thema as much as possible but often that doesn't work all the time. So for the rest of the time just try and be in a group when u go near them cause I doubt theyll mess with more than 1 person
Isn't being laughed at and being bullied kinda in the same boat though? So you'd basically be calling the police either way.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GeraldGreen5 @ Mar 20 2007, 06:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:100%">Isn't being laughed at and being bullied kinda in the same boat though?</span> So you'd basically be calling the police either way.</div>Nope, not even close.
Well not physically the same, but if he told someone, and then people made fun of him for it then that would definitely still be bullying.However, at this point I kind of agree, doesn't seem like you have any other options out there to choose from besides telling someone.
These people are your friends? Or just people you know that bother you? Just do your best to ignore them, you can't get kicked off the football team for defending yourself. If you do ignore them and they start something, defend yourself, I highly doubt you'd get in trouble if it were like three guys going after you.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LakersFan247 @ Mar 20 2007, 05:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Change schools? Find new friends...maybe bigger friends.</div> Haha. Bring me to school Kobe, I'll put one of them in an escort hold and make them cry. :happy0144:
I tried to go hang out with 2 of my other REAL friends but then they came and grabbed me annd threw me in the bathroom like I already said... loldont know wtf there problem is... I didnt do sh*t to them when we used to be friends
Better yet, since you are on the football team make friends with a group of guys on the team. I'm sure most of the team includes big tough dudes. It will take time, but eventually just start hanging out with them or invite them over after practice. (after you talk and stuff for a while during practice/games) Now I don't know if those assholes that mess with you are on the team or not but it doesn't matter. There are alot of people on a football team and I'm sure you can be friends with some of them while staying away from the assholes.
Tell them to stop and if they dont tell someone or fight back...Once u show them your not afraid of them they'll probably stop messing with u. U can't get thrown off the football team if u protect yourself from kids that are hitting u, that's bullsh**
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LakersFan247 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Better yet, since you are on the football team make friends with a group of guys on the team. I'm sure most of the team includes big tough dudes. It will take time, but eventually just start hanging out with them or invite them over after practice. (after you talk and stuff for a while during practice/games) Now I don't know if those assholes that mess with you are on the team or not but it doesn't matter. There are alot of people on a football team and I'm sure you can be friends with some of them while staying away from the assholes.</div>Dude one of the 2 people is my teammate.
