My mom is a bi-polar bi*ch. She argues with me with everything and is bi*ch to almost everyone but my sister. Everyday we have a big argument she makes a small thing into a BIG problem. WE have not had 1 day with peace when the whole family is home. She acts like a retard I tell something about 10 times and then asks to make it more. My mom and dad are still arguing right now and have been for the past month. they argue so much. I cant stand it anymore.Today I came off on her and told her and sweared alot times and got everything of my chest. I dont even do anything she grounds me. Its because her friends kids are lilttle pussies and have no friends in school and are like so sensitive when there parents are around. She wants me to be like them. She thinks im intimidated from her and im not.
Kill them with kindness...it works every time. Just say OK Mom, you're right and I'm wrong, I'm sorry. Then ask her if she needs you to do anything around the house or something.Cussin at her is just gonna make it worse and give her more of a reason to be a beyotch.
I think everyone has this phase. I had my arguments with my dad that got heated. But now I don't care. You should do the same and respect your parents...even if they are wrong.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Rok @ Jun 18 2007, 11:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I think everyone has this phase. I had my arguments with my dad that got heated. But now I don't care. You should do the same and respect your parents...even if they are wrong.</div>I do that 75% of the time. She is never wrong once she is wrong everyone gets annoyed and I get punished because she was wrong or corrected for a little thing. Then when you try to get away from her to stop the argument she comes back me and mocks me because my dad always sides with her because she is "sick" then im punished more. Shes a perfectionist too.
All I can tell you is try to sit down with your mom and have a peaceful talk with her and tell her how you feel. You don't want to go through life with a distance between you and her, because one day, you will really need her, or she will really need you.
You guys think arguing is bad, thats the funny thing. Black people dont argue, black people hit eachother. My mom didnt have time to yell at me, I just got the sh*t beat out of me instead. :boxin: When I was younger id much rather have my mom yell at me then hit my ass with a big ass spoon. and black women have the biggest spoons to hit their kids with, trust me.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (PrimeTime @ Jun 19 2007, 02:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>You guys think arguing is bad, thats the funny thing. Black people dont argue, black people hit eachother. My mom didnt have time to yell at me, I just got the sh*t beat out of me instead. :boxin: When I was younger id much rather have my mom yell at me then hit my ass with a big ass spoon. and black women have the biggest spoons to hit their kids with, trust me.</div>Haha..I'm white, but my mom was the exact same way...I remember she had a wooden spoon that somehow got warped, so it was twisted a little bit, hurt even worse then a straight spoon. Whenever I would get a detention in grade school I would get whacked, I used to come home and lock myself in the bathroom for hours until she forgot to avoid not getting hit.And as for your problem ifresh, there is only solution, and I think you know what to do....
My brother and mom use to always go at it, I'm the type that'll just go in my room close my door and turn on tv/radio/computer or whatever. I rarely argue back, its pointless pretty much and no matter what that is still my mom. Me and my have never had an argument, kinda weird. I think he prolly yelled at me once in my whole life, that was last year about my grades which he just pretty much said get them up or no car. My mom fusses at me pretty much everyday, sometimes for sh*t I don't even do. Just live with it, cussing and all of that crap at them doesn't help at all. Especially since you're so young, if my 13 year old kid did that to me I'd whoop the sh*t of em.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (iFR3SHi @ Jun 19 2007, 12:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>My mom is a bi-polar bi*ch. She argues with me with everything and is bi*ch to almost everyone but my sister. Everyday we have a big argument she makes a small thing into a BIG problem. WE have not had 1 day with peace when the whole family is home. She acts like a retard I tell something about 10 times and then asks to make it more. My mom and dad are still arguing right now and have been for the past month. they argue so much. I cant stand it anymore.Today I came off on her and told her and sweared alot times and got everything of my chest. I dont even do anything she grounds me. Its because her friends kids are lilttle pussies and have no friends in school and are like so sensitive when there parents are around. She wants me to be like them. She thinks im intimidated from her and im not.</div>Now that you've calmed down, do you want to take back calling your moms a bi*ch?Edit: And what DTP said.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DTP @ Jun 19 2007, 10:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I'm black and I never get hit. Probably got hit like 4 times my whole life.</div>Multiply that by about 1,000 for the time I've been smacked or hit by one of my parents. I was a bad kid.
Get your mom to a doctor. I had anxiety disorder which is kinda similar and they create the greatest medicines for these disorders.
Dude, you're 11 years old and already saying sh*t like that to your mom? If you don't agree with her, stop acting like a punk and calling her names...sit down and talk to her about it. Your mom went through alot to put you into this planet, try to treat her with some respect.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (CB4AllStar @ Jun 19 2007, 12:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Dude, you're 11 years old and already saying sh*t like that to your mom? If you don't agree with her, stop acting like a punk and calling her names...sit down and talk to her about it. Your mom went through alot to put you into this planet, try to treat her with some respect.</div>While I agree she does deserve respect, any girl can get knocked up. its not that hard
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (PrimeTime @ Jun 19 2007, 12:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>You guys think arguing is bad, thats the funny thing. Black people dont argue, black people hit eachother. My mom didnt have time to yell at me, I just got the sh*t beat out of me instead. :boxin: When I was younger id much rather have my mom yell at me then hit my ass with a big ass spoon. and black women have the biggest spoons to hit their kids with, trust me.</div>:HAHAHA:Me and my parents rarely ever argue. When my brother was my age, almost every day there would be an argument. I don't get my point across by yelling.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (iFR3SHi @ Jun 19 2007, 12:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>But the thing is this has been going on since 2002.</div>are your in 6th grade now, 1st grade you and your mom hating like that? wow ..dude I feel bad for real
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Jun 19 2007, 12:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Get your mom to a doctor. I had anxiety disorder which is kinda similar and they create the greatest medicines for these disorders.</div>You had anxiety as well? What'd you do to get over it?
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (CB4AllStar @ Jun 19 2007, 11:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Dude, you're 11 years old and already saying sh*t like that to your mom? If you don't agree with her, stop acting like a punk and calling her names...sit down and talk to her about it. Your mom went through alot to put you into this planet, try to treat her with some respect.</div>agreed. Even tho me any my parents get angry if I get a fucken b on my report card, I say I bring it up, and stick to that. Next time they won't get angry at me for lil stuff like that because it won't be there. Seriously, for that young and to use that to your mom. I feel for ya with how you get treated, but I would never call my parents that to there face, 2 much respect man.
