OT "Act like big boys"/"Eat a bag of dicks" argument

I never “called a black man ‘boy’”, that’s the issue. Would I go up to a black man and say “boy”? Of course not. Would I say “hey what’s your boys name?” Yes because I did not realize the actual word “boy” is 100-% of the time being racist.

 

"Flipping out"? Is that how black people sound to you when they protest against something you say?

My statement was pretty simple and plain:

But I "flipped out"... No, I gave you a tool that you don't seem ready to use.

 

You're so defensive about something no one ever implied...

And you know what?? My son is 14. If you called him boy... YOU'D BE CORRECT. HE IS A BLACK BOY....

See the difference or not? Jesus... I said full stop on calling black MEN boys... I said this without implying you used any particular context but that it's just not a good thing to do... And here we are...

 

My god.

 

I’m not black or gay, so my opinion should mean a lot

Eat a bag of dicks said to someone is completely homophobic

Calling a black man boy is racist

Saying some people regardless of color need to act like big boys is nothing.

So, let’s all put on our big boy pants and love one another. And for those with the opportunity to have a bag of dicks in front of them ……please do whatever makes you happy with them

 

I just want to clarify that I didn’t create this thread. I didn’t title this thread. Not thrilled that it looks like I did.

 

Wait, so you’re not a homophobic racist? My apologies for the harshly worded email I just sent the mods

 

When this man is the voice of reason, you know the thread/forum has really gone off the rails!

 

I’m actually extremely reasonable when it comes to serious things

 

Did the $20 trick work?

 

Awesome. Hope you have an amazing time!

 

Adults

 

I don't have any big boy clothes

 

That Run The Jewels song is one of the greatest videos ever made.