My ex-wife and I divorced in 2019; she had been growing increasingly uncomfortable with my being out, and I was getting really uncomfortable living in the suburbs. HRT changed a lot of things my ex was hoping wouldn't change, and we just basically decided to go our own ways and co-parent from opposite ends of town. We still talk, and I consider her a friend, but we live in two very different worlds now. Kids are doing great; littlest one is entering kindergarten this fall! Just spent the weekend with them, so I'm feeling really good.
