OT "I'm Dealing With A Few Transgender Issues"

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  1. Chris Craig

    Chris Craig (Blazersland) I'm Your Huckleberry Staff Member Global Moderator Moderator

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    Actually, autistic people are exceptionally smart. It doesn't appear he was calling you stupid. He thought your take was uninformed. Perhaps, one should take into account who they are talking to before they decide what words to use. I see no foul meant here though, just a bewilderment of how you came to such an assertion. How have transgendered people been stubborn and pigheaded? I'm cisgendered and I'm not offended. While not all cisgendered people are trying to take people's rights away, those who aren't have an obligation to stand up against those who are.

    Autistic peoples rights have had to be fought for as well. Were they stubborn and pigheaded too or just misunderstood and not given a chance?
     
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    julius I wonder if there's beer on the sun Staff Member Global Moderator

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    4?? Shit, I barely could handle 1.
     
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    I miss having sex with only one person at a time, but on the whole it's not bad.
     
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    This is *exactly* it. The parents who don't know, and would be informed by those parents' rights bills, are the ones who aren't being told for a reason. They're abusive, or they're transphobic, or they're authoritarian. They are the ones who will hurt the kids when they find out. Parents' rights is mostly about preventing kids from feeling safe to be themselves.
     
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    A menage a qua can hardly be bad. But, yeah, I probably wouldn't want to do that every time. There is something about being with one partner at a time that makes it good too.
     
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    I joke, of course; but 3's and 4's do require a lot of planning to make sure people don't feel left out. Honestly I'm more a party planner than fucking Hugh Heffner lol

    Since I'm demisexual, mostly what I do is cuddle a couple of cuties for hours while we watch TV. Which honestly is kind of the best life.
     
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    So when you all are done do you share a cigarette or have some sort of hookah set up?
     
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    we pass the joint around lol
     
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    Planning is good. No one likes to be left out. Spontaneity is important though too...that's where part of the excitement lies, naturally seeing where things go and being in the moment.
     
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    On the left-hand side, I hope.
     
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    Absolutely. It's mostly like setting up good improv: you plan things like boundaries and general "I like this but not that" for everyone beforehand, but in the moment there is a lot of spontaneity. As long as you ask and get permission, and it doesn't hit anyone's hard no boundaries, then it's free game.
     
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    Touché!
     
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    Précisément
     
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    I don’t know what any of this stuff means?
     
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    It would help if they included pics!
     
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    No kidding.
     
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    This is the 18th anti-trans bill signed into law in the U.S. just this year, the 10th ban on gender-affirming care in the U.S., and the second anti-trans bill for Idaho. Idaho passed a bill banning trans students from using the correct restrooms in school in late March.
     
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