The norm is INVOLVED with the school and campus life. Games, events, functions. It’s ODD if they aren’t. I believe that’s what she’s saying.
I came out at work in 2017 and was, no joke, immediately passed up for SEVEN open promotions I had been told I was going to get. I haven’t really tried since.
Freaking sucks. I liked it because I hate it. I'm sorry this is a thing. But to be clear. The vast majority of people are below that dotted line as well. Including myself.