Need some advice

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  1. quentin95

    quentin95 DYC Trialist

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    Hi All,

    Okay so I have a lot of trouble initiating communication with a women. Things like I panic because I don't know what to say, I usually end up feeling awkward and don't know what to say. In my head I say hello, then ask what they do but after that I have a mental blank.

    Also, when it comes to showing interest, such as eye contact and smiling, I tend to get nervous.

    Basically I want advice on what I should talk about, and ladies I would like to know what a guy would/has done that you liked the approach and explain it. Kind of like a coach. Imagine if you were standing beside me, what would you be telling me? If you know any great book, it will be highly appreciated!!!!
    Thanks in advance
     
  2. Oranje

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    thread moved to the pub (from general football)
     
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    twofivefive DYC Boro for FA Cup 2008.

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    Think of them as a friend instead of a person you like and you'll feel comfortable quicker than you would if you kept having trouble. Have some fun with them, flirt with them and make them think you're funny and good to hang around, good to talk to, and then it'll get better from there.
     
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    The 12th Man DYC Im Cantona i go as i want

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    <div class="quote_poster">twofivefive Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Think of them as a friend instead of a person you like and you'll feel comfortable quicker than you would if you kept having trouble. Have some fun with them, flirt with them and make them think you're funny and good to hang around, good to talk to, and then it'll get better from there.</div>

    Is that how u got rani?
     
  5. Oranje

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    <div class="quote_poster">The 12th Man Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Is that how u got rani?</div>

    rofl!!!

    *waiting for twos response*
     
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    Just be yourself, try to talk about something that might interest her, something that you know she likes and maybe pretend that you know alot about it...lol. Loosing your nerves is the most important things, that is basically the wall that seperates you from going further. (Hint: just dont do something stupid or Macho, like fart or burp in front of her, huge turn off, trust me)[​IMG]

    Good Luck

    Oh yes, almost forgot, be very very confident on what you say and what you do, women like a man that speaks with conviction.[​IMG] [​IMG]
     
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    twofivefive DYC Boro for FA Cup 2008.

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    <div class="quote_poster">The 12th Man Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Is that how u got rani?</div>

    Haha you're so funny Rodney. [​IMG]
     
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    The 12th Man DYC Im Cantona i go as i want

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    <div class="quote_poster">twofivefive Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Haha you're so funny Rodney. [​IMG]</div>

    Im not trying to be funny Glen.
     
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    Be confident and just be yourself. Ask them questions so they know you are interested in them!
     
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    echo369 DYC Squad rotation player

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    any advice for someone who CAN talk to girls but just cant get them? *cry*
     
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    <div class="quote_poster">echo369 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">any advice for someone who CAN talk to girls but just cant get them? *cry*</div>

    u need killer instinct. close the deal, be foward. none of this softly softly crap
     
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    I don't know any great books about romance. But I read a book about a year ago called the System by Roy Valentine. Awesome book. It's mostly for guys. It's a no-nonsense, no-frills book that teach guys how to pick up girls. Anyway, i can say this book changed my dating life. Like I said, not for the great romance but highly recommended if you just want to bed chicks.
     
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    I don't know any great books about romance. But I read a book about a year ago called the System by Roy Valentine. Awesome book. It's mostly for guys. It's a no-nonsense, no-frills book that teach guys how to pick up girls. Anyway, i can say this book changed my dating life. Like I said, not for the great romance but highly recommended if you just want to bed chicks.
     
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    I don't know any great books about romance. But I read a book about a year ago called the System by Roy Valentine. Awesome book. It's mostly for guys. It's a no-nonsense, no-frills book that teach guys how to pick up girls. Anyway, i can say this book changed my dating life. Like I said, not for the great romance but highly recommended if you just want to bed chicks.
     
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    I don't know any great books about romance. But I read a book about a year ago called the System by Roy Valentine. Awesome book. It's mostly for guys. It's a no-nonsense, no-frills book that teach guys how to pick up girls. Anyway, i can say this book changed my dating life. Like I said, not for the great romance but highly recommended if you just want to bed chicks.
     
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    I don't know any great books about romance. But I read a book about a year ago called the System by Roy Valentine. Awesome book. It's mostly for guys. It's a no-nonsense, no-frills book that teach guys how to pick up girls. Anyway, i can say this book changed my dating life. Like I said, not for the great romance but highly recommended if you just want to bed chicks.
     
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    I don't know any great books about romance. But I read a book about a year ago called the System by Roy Valentine. Awesome book. It's mostly for guys. It's a no-nonsense, no-frills book that teach guys how to pick up girls. Anyway, i can say this book changed my dating life. Like I said, not for the great romance but highly recommended if you just want to bed chicks.
     

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