Nah...it's plenty fair..the person working a 60 hours a week should clean their hands often and no better way than the scrub a dub...the real key is not to have huge piles of dishes ever...my wife and I share the chores without a problem. You find a balance. It takes a couple seconds to wash out a glass...I know, I've been a bartender as was my father when he started out.
I leave for work and my wife is at home. I get home and she's been home for a couple of hours. I do some laundry and some dishes and take out the garbage. Anyone who wants to say I need to do exactly half of the household chores can eat my taint.
She just brought me a coffee and lunch because she makes her own schedule. She's fine with that seeing as how she works 30 a week and I work 60 every week of the year. My house is spotless too, she is a neat freak. It looks like a model house
I didn't need the WestDipShit Baptist Church preaching to me outside of a Blazer game and I don't need "Bros" giving me preachy pieces of paper at a Blazer game. If I want to read preachy bros I'll visit the OT section.
By the same token I guess "sisters" should scoop their share of dog poop every day, mow the lawn, shovel snow off the roof, change the flat tire, change the oil and battery, repair appliances, remodel the house, lift/move the heavy stuff...