I'm in trouble

Discussion in 'Blazers OT Forum' started by Natebishop3, Oct 14, 2008.

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What should I do?

  1. Ask her out

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  2. Harmlessly flirt

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  3. Play hard to get for a bit longer

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  1. Natebishop3

    Natebishop3 Don't tread on me!

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    So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

    The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
     
  2. ABM

    ABM Happily Married In Music City, USA!

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    You said it: Trouble.

    I believe you're a smart lad and will do the right thing. *check*
     
  3. #1_War_Poet_ForLife

    #1_War_Poet_ForLife The Baker of Cakes

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    Roll 40 deep with your posse, and get some cuddy, yano?


    That was terrible. I call that my BlackShake impersonation.
     
  4. mook

    mook The 2018-19 season was the best I've seen

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    I've had girls explode in my face, and frankly I rather enjoyed it. There's always toys if you aren't into that sort of thing.
     
  5. AgentDrazenPetrovic

    AgentDrazenPetrovic Anyone But the Lakers

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    Just do it.

    You learn from your mistakes, and if mistakes involve tapping a model/dancer, I hope to make huge mistakes every day of my life.
     
  6. NJNetz

    NJNetz BBW Banned

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    If you don't hit it, somebody else will.
     
  7. AgentDrazenPetrovic

    AgentDrazenPetrovic Anyone But the Lakers

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    if you don't do it, at least sneak a camera phone pic of her so we can all enjoy her.
     
  8. Ed O

    Ed O Administrator Staff Member Administrator

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    Dude... go for it, but go in with eyes open.

    Ask her out and be sure of what YOU are willing to do and not do. You're focused on school and you've got a plan, but presumably there's an opportunity to date.

    You might be right and she might be trouble, but if you don't let her knock you off track, then it's no big deal. If you're wrong and she's more stable than you anticipate, then you've really got something.

    Ed O.
    P.S. Six years is nothing. Trust me. :pimp:
     
  9. AgentDrazenPetrovic

    AgentDrazenPetrovic Anyone But the Lakers

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    yeah, if you don't, you'll be kicking yourself the rest of your life. Trust me. :dancepenguin:
     
  10. JFizzleRaider

    JFizzleRaider Yeast Lords Global Moderator

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    At least flirt with her, see if she is interested in you or not. If things eventually escalate, then go for it, but don't forget to wrap it up!
     
  11. Nikolokolus

    Nikolokolus There's always next year

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    As long as you know what you are getting yourself into (a few weeks or maybe months of a good time) then go for it. If you're one of those "serial monogamer" types that "fall in love" easily and you like to get serious with every girl that you date then steer a wide berth. Only you know how you will react or behave.
     
  12. MARIS61

    MARIS61 Real American

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    I wonder why you think she's "trouble"?

    Your description sounds like a nice attractive young woman, eager to learn, who is interested in you.

    Did you bump your head or what?
     
  13. The Professional Fan

    The Professional Fan Big League Scrub

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    I wouldn't think twice about it. Go for her.
     
  14. ucatchtrout

    ucatchtrout Well-Known Member

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    Listen to three days worth of the Tom Leykus show.

    Study the materials on his website. http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

    Make a commitment to spend no more than $60.

    Go have fun. Don't fall in love. Don't think relationship. Think fun.
     
  15. drexlersdad

    drexlersdad SABAS

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    why the hell wouldnt you? im 29 and my girl is 21. one before that was 19.

    age is just mind over matter. if you dont mind, it dont matter
     
  16. The_Lillard_King

    The_Lillard_King Westside

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    I dig high maintance drama chicks . . .
     
  17. barfo

    barfo triggered obsessive commie pinko boomer maniac Staff Member Global Moderator

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    You should ask her if she has a younger sister at home.

    barfo
     
  18. Denny Crane

    Denny Crane It's not even loaded! Staff Member Administrator

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    Sounds like my own story. I married the girl and it's now been 27 years, our anniversary 4 days ago.
     
  19. Jurassic

    Jurassic Trend Setter

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    ^Congrats on that Denny.

    I had it backfire in my face once. My freshman year I asked a girl out after we had worked on a poli sci project all semester. She said yes, bu then stood me up. She called to apologize and I never bothered to call back. Long story short, she was in my poli sci class the next semester (she even came and sat right next to me), I always would run into her at the gym, and she coincidentally she got a job at my favorite place to eat on campus.

    I'm going back to school in winter after some time off, and there is no doubt that karma will put her in my path at some point in an awkward situation.

    But hey, good luck!
     
  20. huevonkiller

    huevonkiller Change (Deftones)

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    Oh lol I'm very sorry to hear that. I think it is better to not fear rejection though.
     

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