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CJ is one of the smartest and well spoken members of the team, but I also like that he has a little edginess to him as well.

 

Well it’s the assumptions. You assume I’m in moods where a discussion can’t be had with me. That’s bullshit. Maybe if you actually tried a shot oppose to shit on me in the past, it would of worked. I see you put more effort into this one though. Never said I was perfect. I certainly had times here where I said some dumb shit and I owned up to it. I think I have been here for four years. I’m 27. A lot hasn’t happened in four years. I have grown a lot. However I’m still very outspoken. It’s just how I have always been. Sometimes I shouldn’t talk because it just creates a scene which I end up regretting. That’s why I haven’t posted here a while. No matter what I post a certain group containing the same people respond and get all mad and quite honestly assume things I didn’t specifically mean. Yeah my delivery is poor at times, that’s what leads to the misunderstanding. You’re right, this is a game. This isn’t real life face to face conversation. Different rules apply I guess. I only have ever had issues in the OT section, never the blazer part of the forum. So I don’t know. I like bones. I like other people here but yes you’re right, it’s a game.


As much as it seems, this shit doesn’t bother me as much as my words might make it out to be. I just kinda checked the forum today, saw this and started typing an opinion. I went for a run and here I am thinking “well fuck this kind of went further then I wanted, I just wanted to say an opinion and that’s it”.

 

If everyone would just abide by my rules there would be no problems here.

 

I’m not trying to diss you. I’m just saying I think certain people could handle the job and some can’t. My opinion being, you can’t. That’s one opinion. It was unanimous though so there you go. I have no personal issue with you. I think the only person I would consider having a personal issue here is with dviss because he has made it that way. You don’t get to sit and imply I’m racist time and time again or tell me you’re scared to go to some event with me being involved and be scared to take your son because I’m a gun owner, implying the most dramatic shit of all being that I would cause some form of harm to somebody. However that’s what dviss did and honestly I don’t care for that fucking guy. That kind of shit isn’t cool to me, especially when people in my past close to me have been taken by guns. I don’t play around with that. That’s when it got very personal. I don’t find him to be a good person and I get angry thinking about having to ever talk to such a person like that in person. So yeah. You guys have different experiences with him. That’s great. He hasn’t said the shit to you like he has me though. That’s a vile person.

 

Or live by only one rule.

 

Until your delivery changes, people will assume your mood. That's not bullshit, it might be unfair. But it's not bullshit.
It's actually 100% on you to find a way to say something without seeming combative.

You're allowed to be outspoken, I am. I've said this before, even 4 years ago when you joined.
(I only said this back then because I liked you as a poster. I didn't want to see you leave the forum)
However my delivery is in such a way people don't have the ability to make an assumption.
All my posts are very clear.
I put the same amount of effort in every post.

You've said it before that this forum doesn't bother you like your posts make it seem like.
I can accept that, however it's now on you to word it so that people have no ability to call you a racist, a nazi, etc.

You and I are around the same age Cippy, so I understand the absolute frustration which can come from a generalization.

 

I'm going to choose to bow out of this thread here.
Have a great day everyone.

 

I think I come across better in person. You can’t hear tone and all that across words so I see how at times I could seem combative and at times I certainly have been but for the most part I’m not trying to be combative at all and I think the generalizations are uncalled for because there’s is always zero evidence behind it. The issue is we live in a society now where calling people racists for practically nothing is the normal thing to do along with nazi and alt right, all that nonsense. Funny thing is, I’m not right at all. I mean I have some views I share that are right but I also have views that are very liberal. It’s just interesting to me I guess. Maybe in a sense that’s why I stopped posting in OT. Sometimes I don’t think when I deliver something. I just kinda type and whatever my mind comes up with I deliver. It might sound combative when it’s read but it’s not meant to be, that’s for sure.

 

The ignore button...

It's so LIBERATING!!!!

I don't have to read wonderful and insightful things that cippy says!

 

and yeah I said this because it's true. he is baiting me with his gray area shit and I am taking it because fuck his posts. Sick of that shit. Fix it

 

Dude... That is a terrible post.

 

For the record, it's racially insensitive...

 

Mine?

 

No sir, I don't know how the ignore stuff works, but it was in response to a different poster. Sorry if the timing made it look like I was responding to you.