<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (dsounG @ Nov 7 2006, 07:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Since there's that other girl thread about asking out, Has anybody been depressed over a girl?Please, Don't pull any of that tough guy crap here. Be honest. The reason I made this thread is because I am right now. I'll tell the reason why later...But yeaah.</div><span style="font-family:Tahoma">I thought you said you don't like girls yet... :no3: Anyway, I have never been depressed over a girl... EVER! Well, okay, maybe once... My girl friend (not g/f; just a female friend) hadn't spoken to me for a long time and I thought she was mad or something. So, finally, I got the courage to ask her what's the deal and she replied, "Nothing, babe. Just been thinking about things..." I didn't understand and I left it at that. I was still depressed over her; I liked her... After a couple of more days of no-see, no-speak moments, one of her friends told me that she (my friend) wants to date me. Suddenly, my depression left. :shifty2: End of story.P.S: We dated, broke up after a couple of weeks (like 3 weeks, I guess), and we're still friends.</span>
Yeah, kind of once. I met this girl through tennis one time. She is really pretty and one of the coolest girls I've ever met in my life. We talked a bit while we were playing tennis, then gradually we started talking outside of it and hanging out more. She lives like 45 minutes away from me in New Hampshire, so the only time I'd really get to see her would be on the weekends. I'd go up and see her Friday/Saturday sometimes. I eventually started to like her so much that I wanted to ask her out. But I never did because I thought it'd just be weird. Then finally I did and she denied me because she didn't want to ruin our great friendship. I guess I was depressed for a while then I realized it was better and I don't think I would have wanted it to go any other way.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (yankshater213 @ Nov 8 2006, 01:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Then finally I did and she denied me because she didn't want to ruin our great friendship. I guess I was depressed for a while then I realized it was better and I don't think I would have wanted it to go any other way.</div>I hate to break it to you, but girls are really manipulative and don't usually say exactly what they mean.
Well she wasn't being manipulative, because to this day, she is still my best friend, so I'm happy with it.We both love each other, and I don't this she wanted, and neither do I, anything to really get screwed up with a bad relationship. Both of us are content with being best friends and we don't really want to be labeled anyways, be it a good or bad way.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC? @ Nov 7 2006, 07:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Never. Even when me and Melanie broke up after 2 years I didn't care. We are back together now but that's beside the point.I always look at things as a positive. I'm never depressed.</div>True this.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (yankshater213 @ Nov 8 2006, 01:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Well she wasn't being manipulative, because to this day, she is still my best friend, so I'm happy with it.We both love each other, and I don't this she wanted, and neither do I, anything to really get screwed up with a bad relationship. Both of us are content with being best friends and we don't really want to be labeled anyways, be it a good or bad way.</div>You don't even get what I'm saying. Manipulation can still be done by friends. I was implying that she probably said that because she didn't want to hurt your feelings.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Nov 7 2006, 10:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-family:Tahoma">I thought you said you don't like girls yet... :no3: Anyway, I have never been depressed over a girl... EVER! Well, okay, maybe once... My girl friend (not g/f; just a female friend) hadn't spoken to me for a long time and I thought she was mad or something. So, finally, I got the courage to ask her what's the deal and she replied, "Nothing, babe. Just been thinking about things..." I didn't understand and I left it at that. I was still depressed over her; I liked her... After a couple of more days of no-see, no-speak moments, one of her friends told me that she (my friend) wants to date me. Suddenly, my depression left. :shifty2: End of story.P.S: We dated, broke up after a couple of weeks (like 3 weeks, I guess), and we're still friends.</span></div>Man you really do like that Azzy girl don't you? Go ahead and admit it.Of course I've been depressed. That's what happens when you like girls since preschool and you are pretty ugly.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (nba dogmatist @ Nov 7 2006, 10:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>wait, you're in volleyball? :shok: but that was pretty dumb. why would you break up with your girlfriend, which you like, if the girl you like more is going out with a friend of yours?</div>Yeah, Im in Volleyball. I just won 2 games today. Anyways, Well I was going out with her and I started talking to the girl I like more and more then I liked her, And this was before she went out with my friend. Then like a week later they went out.I don't really see anything between them two. They really never hang out. And I thought it was the best thing to do since I was pissed a lot and I didn't wanna take it out at my GF at the time.
I have. It took me 3 months or so of avoiding her and I felt great. That was four years ago. Nowadays I never talk to her nor do I want to. I never see her at all so it that helps me out. Anyway what I learned was: these things happen, get over them. Ever since that, I've never had any girl problems.So that means I can pull that tough guy crap now :shifty2:
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Nov 8 2006, 05:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Man you really do like that Azzy girl don't you? Go ahead and admit it.</div><span style="font-family:Tahoma">The girl I was referring to before was a girl named MarShawna (half-black, half-Puerto Rican). She's currently dating my best friend.As for Azzy, I <u>love</u> her. I don't know whether it's just silly teen love or actual love.</span>
