So you fucked a taken girl and then got pissed when she didn't leave her fiance for your broke ass? I think its safe to say shes a money grubbing whore but I'd say you're also naive for thinking you would run away with her and live happily ever after. Obviously if you were actually special to her she would have left this guy before she fucked you. Congrats on being the sap who she chose to fuck on the side but I'm sure she can find a replacement penis in your absence and keep the rich future husband. Not all girls are that way though. But you do have to play the game. Its your job to pick em out better.
yeah...i know...I could go through the nuances of our conversations to tell you some of my reasoning...but yeah, im a fool... i knew it too, just didnt want to admit it to myself ....of course she has been talking shit about him for months to me, talking about how they planned a Hawaii trip months ago and how bummed she is on having to spend the money for that and wish it could just be canceled. Theyve been together for a while and I thought their relationship was on their last leg...she also said a few months ago " I hope he doesnt do something stupid like propose to me while we are there" ....she came back from the trip with a rock on her finger....hence, say what you mean and do what you say...they are incapable
I was told by her she was moving out right after the trip....stupid me btw...why do you assume im broke and hes has money? ....but your right
Dude, it's not about being bitter. It's a game. Life is a game. Sure, it would be great if things were simple, but women want what they can't have. The only reason why they like assholes is because those guys act like they don't care. They act like it doesn't matter to them. You have to at least be able to get to the point where it seems like you don't care. If you let a girl push you around, or put the pussy on a pedestal, it will only go bad. You have to stand up for yourself. Doting on a girl or letting her run you will only lose her respect. I learned all this stuff the hard way. I got my girl because I basically ignored her. She thought I liked other girls more than her. She pursued me. It works sadly.
I know all this stuff...Ive heard that all a million times...I just dont want to go down to that level...its silly. Why do you have to mindfuck a person you like?!? Thats the exact opposite of what I want to do! OOO OOO I like that girl! Let me ignore her and if she talks to me be slightly rude and disinterested! ....fuck that
The only way to go is to get a woman that is NOT an American and raised in a different culture. A culture where women are raised to respect men and do as they are fucking told....instead of being trained to USE men to get what they want.
Maybe you should go after unmarried or un-fianced women. Just sayin'...If you improve your standards, you improve your catch.
respect...yes "do as they are fucking told"....meh, I dont want a bitch who always goes against what i said, but i dont want a servant either
And you know what man, it's called human nature. You can rage against the machine, but it's fact. Guys who get all up on a girl and call them all the time and are really needy become less attractive.
I have plenty of times....this is just this particular case And she was not engaged when we started hanging out but yeah... You other guys have this problem: The women who seem the most into you always have a boyfriend...always seems to be my case. Its either they know they are just fucking with me and want to flirt to feel hot...or I act differently around them cause I assume I have no chance (and dont try either)...so I come off as what NateBishop is describing btw when i first hooked up with this girl she made the moves on me...