Zombie Help! I got a chick Pregnant!!!!!

The world is filled with people who have sex and have kids because they are irresponsable or want to have a child for the wrong reason, which is a huge problem. If your not ready to be a father then don't. Get an abortion. Don't listen to religious fanatics or people who are on a moral high horse, they usually have little or no experience in any matters that have to do with the problem. Also, if she is having second thoughts, you need to be honest with her and tell her that you don't want her to be the mother of your child. It was a freak accident that she got pregnant, and like you said, its %50 for each of you, so you should have just as much say as she does.

 

Regardless of what "should be," she has 100% of the legal rights, which is all that matters. And even in the abstract, I don't think it should be 50-50, since it involves her body so the responsibility is not shared 50-50.

I think he should be honest about how he feels and honest about how involved he'll be if she has the baby. After that, he should leave it to her, since it's her decision.

 

I called planned parenthood, checked their website for all the different options. I didnt even know you could have an abortion by pill now. I thought there was just the morning after pill. It costs a little more than the surgical procedure but I think it would be way less traumatic and very much worth the extra $75. They told me it would cost between 450-575 based on income. She makes good money so I assume the higher. Thank you crandc for the advice. Im glad you saw this thread...now I just need to convince her to do it because its the right thing for both of us.

A pill and the problem is gone....please dear god say yes...go get pregnant by somebody else. leave me out!

The gay community doesnt have this problem...maybe I should switch teams

 

booze and hot tub

 

shut up xericx

 

Actually, same sex couples have battles over whether or not to have children, the big difference is that it does not happen by accident. Our kids are always planned.

 

Give me that problem over this one any day of the week...that sounds much more appealing right now

 

btw crandac, the planned parenthood where I live is sort of in a lame, low income part of town. IMO that would just add to the emotional trauma of thinking this is a "ghetto" thing to do or something along those lines. I found another place within a 1/2 mile of her place that offers the abortion pill. Unless you think of a reason not to if this were to happen Im leaning towards taking her there.

 

Rozza5 = Ukyl.

 

ewu haf P.M.

 

Your kids sound way too young to be married, but what do I know?

 

knaught az eezee az it louks, huh?

 

I sense some resentment from you towards anything with a penis.

We aren't all monsters.

 

This is very interesting indeed...

 

Hallelujah! Im not going to be a dad!!!!!!!! Holy crap...I can breath again...

She went to the obgyn like I said for an ultrasound. The doctor came in after reviewing the results and asked her if she was planning on keeping it. She asked why and the dr said that due to her taking two types of antibiotics (she has had horrible migraines recently)the past few weeks that the lining required to have a health pregnancy was not fully formed. So in other words, she can have kids, just not right now because it started bad because of the antibiotics. The dr informed he she could either see how it goes which I guess is very doubtful or terminate it. She chose to terminate and they did the procedure right then and there. I had no idea this had even a chance of happening today or I would have been there without question.

In one sense Im glad about the reason why she went thru with it. I think it makes it slightly less stressful for her knowing that even if she wanted the pregnancy it wouldnt have worked out...at least this time.

I was just at her place when she got back. Obviously she is feeling down and understandably started sobbing at one point. She said "sorry" to which I replied she had no reason to be. Im just as responsible for this mess.

Thank you for everyone that came with heartfelt honest advice in this thread, especially crandc and Trip Tango who sent me a very good PM.


Now for $20 I'll tell you my real screenname in a PM
There are only 1 or 2 who I really dont want to know who this is.

...i take paypal

...holy crap...what a 24 hours

 

Naught kuite

 

Mods, post his screen name.

 

no really dont...If that happens then all my friends I actually know in person will find out and Id rather keep this to myself.

You post my SN and you are getting my real life involved...dont do that

I ask nicely