I'd say people having a tickle fight in a guy's locker room are the disrespectful ones. Saying they were kinda gay 20 years ago wouldn't even register as an insult. It equates to "what a bunch of fu@@$ fa%$#" in today's world. My sister is a lesbian. I want her to have all the rights other's have. I don't even mind two guys kissing in public anymore. Seen it so much it doesn't register. However, creepy tickle fights with two guys holding another on the ground should still be unacceptable in a men's locker room.
Yeah...the whole thing about two on one tickle fight...thats too close to foreplay. You know, in the old days, someone would be close to whipping out a rubber
I mean, sure, it sounds like they were horseplaying in a public space, which is disrespectful. I get that. What I don't get is why your commentary is that they are being 'gay'? If they're being disrespectful, and you have no problem with gay people, then why call them 'gay'? Why use 'gay' as an insult?
Sure, programming is a likely explanation. You said you didn't even think about it. Everyone experiences similar things. So you could stop there. You didn't mean to say it, and you don't hate gay people. Badda bing, badda boom. Or, if you want, you could ask yourself: if you were programmed to have that reaction, who wrote the code? Are you comfortable with having this seemingly uncontrollable reaction to perceived homosexual behavior? Will you say the same thing if you see this happening again? Is there any lesson to be learned at all?
lol jesus christ. So many more important things in the world and you are really trying to figure out why bodyman did what he did like it was so bad. Get over it
the lesson to be learned is people can get faggy anywhere at anytime and to be alert, watch for it. Stay safe. Wear protection in case you get faggy yourself
