Which is fine. I made the distinction that if it is nonconsensual it is not ok. But being into choking or being choked while having sex is not really abnormal. Choking and being choked was a thing in 2003 too. Don't kid yourself. I was in college around that time and it was rampant then too.
I'm not trying to kid anyone. And I'm not the one questioning Lanny's intended meaning. I was also around in 2003 and sorry but what you are describing is quite different than my experiences...Lanny's too I would guess. If you can provide some sort of data showing that choking during sex was "rampant" in 2003 I will yield....otherwise, no.
All you have to do is google yourself. A quick look at wiki for erotic asphyxiation shows references to articles written in the 80's and 90's talking about it. Some people like having sex under the covers with the lights off. That is fine. But there are others that like to live a little. Check out some of the bdsm websites out there. Trust me when I say there are some interesting things people are into. Choking is one of the tamer ones. As a student at a university back in that time, i can assure you, it was a thing.
A few people who like to choke/be choked?...sure. But "rampant" no. I can name some well known people who were evidently into that sort of deviance and died as a result. Since when is dying considered "living"?
People can die from anything. If that is how you feel, I guess you shouldn't bungie jump, or hike, or get in a car either. Stop kink shaming bro.
Ahhh, I see...so now "bungie jumping" is "rampant too? The odds of being struck by lightening are about the same as winning the lottery...but that doesn't mean you should run around in a lightening storm with a lightening rod in your hand either. And "kink shaming"?...really?
Lol. Choking during sex happens much more than you are trying to let on bro. Go do some research to see all the heathens that are out there. Warning. You may find pictures of women who get their ass beat so badly they have black and blue marks covering their entire asses because they love the pain.
Sorry, I'll pass. And I ain't your "bro". Why not start a poll to see how many people here think that what you are claiming is the norm and whether or not they practice it? Never said it doesn't happen ...I only said it's not "rampant".
Why do I want to poll old people? You can go to one of the many bdsm websites to see how many people talk about choking and similar kinks. Sorry for calling you bro, pal.
...lol...ain't your pal either...and now you're stipulating that it's only "rampant" in certain age groups? The people you claim that were doing it in 2003 are now relatively "old".
It was certainly on campus, friend. Don't know what to tell you. Go do your own research for once. I told you about google a time or two. Once you go on one of those websites, you will see how many heathens there are. Problem solved!
Sorry, but you made the claim so the onus is on you to provide proof. But be advised, googling is a 2 way street. You provide a link to support you assertion that choking during sex was and is "rampant", and I'll conversely provide a different one. Okey dokey?
Lol. I can walk you through it if you need. My grandpa calls me all the time when he has technical difficulties so I am used to it. I made a statement, based on experiences that happened when I was in college, younger, permiscuous. My friends had similar experiences. You can disprove it if you'd like. I know it is probably hard for you to realize the world is full of sexual deviants. It took me two seconds to find an article talking about rising strangulation deaths on accident during sex. Just think of how many people do it but don't die. Have fun with this article. Hope you learn a thing or two. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.th...l/25/fatal-hateful-rise-of-choking-during-sex
Lol... you keep changing the goal post. I already acknowledged that there are some who are into that sort of thing. My only issue was with you claiming it is "rampant" and was also rampant in 2003. And it seems you didn't even bother to actually read and digest the obscure link/reference you posted. It's essentially highlights a guy who chokes his wife to death during sex and is charged with murder, found guilty, and sentenced to 17 years in prison. Sorry, but a couple of isolated instances of freaky sex gone bad does not equate to "rampant".
Well, I do have other plans and that does not include arguing over semantics. However, I had some nice entertainment in the meantime.
Did you not read the article? The article does say it is a niche, and you keep hanging onto the word rampant. It was rampant when I was going to school. Let me go interview the girls that attended back in the day and get right back to you. I don't know what to tell you bruh. We must be heathens out here on the west coast. Again, you can go look at any of the bdsm websites to educate yourself.
