OT Opinion: Why I felt trapped by violent misogyny at the Wally Awards

That was probably not the venue to be telling edgy jokes.

 

You know how hard it is for Indians to get white girls? It's an uphill battle for oriental asians, but Indians....man.

 

You aren't too sensitive. You are too wrong. Show me one quote where the moron said "women owe me sex"

Where? Where? Where?

Olivia Sanchez is the one who said something about women owing him sex.

If I missed the tennis guy saying it please for the love of God quote it.

Come on, I know you can do it?

Otherwise we just have the same lesbian woman saying the same brainwashed bullshit.

If you have your way you'll soon change the name of the fucking dictionary to "mansplainer"

 

Lol at people telling Dviss there isn't racism.

Some guys here inexplicably deny white privilege but I can't make them see it.

 

Don't own too much fault. Some jobs are just too difficult.

 

Ah! You have a bone for an ear! But you can read what the lady heard in speech that should have not been heard.

 

If what crandc heard is true all of us racist white guys should kill this Indian boy who's talking about raping white women. We should also be proud that white women are the ultimate hotties.

I'm SOOOOOOO CONFLICTED!!!!!

 

Oh well, it is all exciting! But I did not hear the tell tale scream that women have. My wife can demo it perfectly, it is a what I call the Lock n Load call.
Any man will recognize it as the call to action, it's like an instant injection of adrenaline after which your hair won't lay down and your eyes can't blink.

Naw none of that, a lady was offended, needlessly because a fool spoke when handed a mic, and his daddy never taught him any manners. My wife probably would say, Oh my! Some lady will have to tame that fool!

 

Don't know what he actually said or anything about him. Would be hilarious if he knew this woman was there and did this specifically for her.

 

Poutrageous

 

Ha!
I have visions of him performing for Mazzuca!

 

You mean a lesson too late? Even without meeting Mazzuca!

 

Literally shaking

 

Cool. Another crandc troll post that I guarantee she won't actually respond to.

Show me one person in here who said his speech wasn't fucked up? We took issue with the girl claiming it was about violence and rape though, but you just seemed to skim right over that because in your head anyone who didn't immediately jump to "FUCK ALL THE MEN!" is clearly mansplaining that there is no misogyny.

And the most fucked part is that you don't even see what's happening around you, because I see a whole generation of men who are coming up in a society that tells them that their opinions are less. Men who are living in fear that if they say the wrong thing, they could ruin their lives.

You're white? You don't know anything about discrimination or bigotry. Doesn't matter what your background is, or what experiences you have had.

You're a straight man? You don't know anything about sexual assault, or abuse, or discrimination. Doesn't matter what your background is or what experiences you have had.

I see men who are afraid to pay a compliment to a female coworker because they're worried they'll get turned in to HR. I see male teachers who are leaving the profession because they're afraid of a student accusing them of inappropriate behavior. I see men who are threatened by women with accusations of assault or rape if they don't bend to the will of that woman. Men who are convicted of domestic abuse because the wife is pissed at them. If a man calls 911 because his wife is hitting him, he is more likely to be the one who ends up in handcuffs when the police show up. I have seen it happen.

But hey, why don't you just keep hatesplaining to us how evil we are, because you have that luxury. You can openly hate men because that's en vogue. Almost nobody will call you on it. I'm sorry if you had some bad experiences, but to hold that against all men is just as fucked as the opinions that you seem to hold against men. When you diminish someone's opinion to "mansplaining" or "whitesplaining," you are using hate speech to tell someone that their opinion doesn't matter. There's a perfectly good word in the dictionary that doesn't put down a person's gender or their race, it's "condescending" and I have seen you talk to people on here in a condescending tone as well.

 

PIV IS RAPE YOU RAPIST!!!!!

 

If it was a political statement then I wouldn't be embarrassed. If he just thought he was being funny he should be embarrassed.

 

But what about overreacting to our perceived overreaction about a woman's overreaction?