What a great country we live in! Couple fined for not hosting same-sex marriage

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  1. magnifier661

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    I agree.

    A business should not be allowed to refuse service for things like dress code or things like open carry of firearms. :tsktsk:
     
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    I was gonna post something, but I was worried that it was going to offend Jeffrey
     
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    I still don't think its right that a business can discriminate against others based upon their religious beliefs. Whether or not they are fined by the Gov is another thing. We have discrimination laws in place for a reason. Gays/Blacks Jews/Mexicans Women/Men, whatever, they all should have the same treatment at a business in the USA.

    If religious beliefs cause you to discriminate against people then you shouldn't be in business in a country where there are discrimination laws.
     
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    Religious freedom is enshrined in the 1st amendment. Should a synagogue be forced to marry christians in a christian ceremony?

    The issue here is not refusing service, it's refusing to take part in a religious ceremony that is in conflict with their own religion. And it's in their HOME.

    It is a very different thing than a store among a city block of stores refusing service. The city has zoned that block as commercial, the business is open to the general public. But the business is not forced to be open at 4AM, or the parking lot free to use for people wanting to park and go to the beach all day.
     
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    There is a big difference in the law between a business and a church. Personally if I was king I'd make churches pay tax, but that's not the way it is. So bringing up a synagogue is really not useful.

    It is refusing service. There's no evidence in the OP that the farm owners take part in the ceremony, it sounds like they rent space out and have hired help. And there's no evidence given that the weddings are held in their home rather than somewhere else on the farm.

    Same for the farm, presumably, unless they are violating zoning rules.

    Well, then this couple should not be forced to be open at 4AM either. And people shouldn't be allowed to park at their farm and go to the beach. Fair is fair.

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    "Readers know that I’ve come to support same-sex marriage. But I can’t understand why clergymen and -women are free in New York to opt out of joining in marriage homosexual couples, but the law gives not a lick of respect to non-ordained people of faith." -- the OP

    Presumably, you're making stuff up.
     
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    How does that quote contradict anything I posted?

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    The law isn't litigated yet. The farm paid a $13,000 fine and is appealing it. They are going to win.

    In the meantime, the farm stopped hosting wedding ceremonies altogether, which is costing them business (let them eat cake!). They still offer their farm for use for receptions. For ANYONE. So they're simply not discriminating.

    Huff and puff all you want, but you ain't right. Again.
     
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    I get what you are saying, but their farm isn't a church, it is a space that is rented out; it's a business. They use their space to make money.

    Whether it's your home or not, if you are performing business there are laws against discrimination. Allowing people to bend laws because it violates religious beliefs is bullshit. Anyone could then come up with whatever the fuck religion they wanted to get around any law, and I believe the idea to allow that is B.S.
     
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    Kind of like how someone can say "I'm not Christian/Muslim/Jewish, I'm whatever-the-fuck/atheist, so help me get around these pesky laws around marriage so I can marry according to my (non)-faith?" Bending laws like that? Some people agree with you that that is BS :)
     
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    Not in the case of polygamist religious beliefs or marrying children by arrangement to old men. There are a lot of religious beliefs to address when it comes to legalities. In the case of gay marriage, I think it's not such an issue but for example, if a gay person wanted multiple husbands, wives, etc. or to marry a 16 year old, it would be a factor
     
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    The distinction is the people are being forced to participate in a religious ceremony in their home.

    If they refused to allow LGBT people on the property at all or refused them non-religious functions, then it would be discrimination.

    I don't agree that they should have refused the wedding, it's just that they have rights to do so.
     
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    Yes, but stating that religions cannot be free from laws isn't the case all the time. That's the start of the argument.

    And let's be real here. Being able to marry an 8 year old as oppose to refusing service is quite the difference don't you think?
     
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    Dude, that is not true read the OP. It said they refused to hold the ceremony on their land which is being used as a business for other ceremonies. Which was recorded.

    There is nothing in the OP about the owners being forced to participate. They refused to host the damn thing. Hosting doesn't mean they have to participate. They could have allowed the ceremony to happen, while having employees handle all the planning/direction. They could have kept to themselves in their home, while their farm was being used in the ceremony.
     
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    Yeah... I believe that two people should be able to join together and have the same tax/benefit/etc treatment as regular married people. When we made discrimination laws in USA, we opened ourselves up to removing/changing special benefits for some people but not the other, as an example, like you posted, the word/idea of marriage.

    So in other words, we either adjust/change the definition of marriage, or we create a new word and attach the same legal benefits/etc to it for others.
     
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    So reverse discrimination is your suggestion? It's their home and property. They're not the ones who should have to cave on their legit principles.

    Go look at the farm's WWW site. They do receptions, always did, and for anyone LGBT or whatever. The ceremony is the difference.
     
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    The difference is, they open themselves up to the laws of the land when they start running a business out of their home.


    What you're saying is that it's okay that I open a computer repair shop out of my house but I tell every white person that they can't get their computer serviced here because I only serve minorities, since that is what my religion says I must do. It's okay right because its my house and my religious view? "I'm sorry, I dont agree with you being white, so no service" .... BS.
     

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