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Personally, I hope that part isn't true. I don't have a problem with gay couples, but I think it would be wrong for them to raise children. Call me old-fashioned, a bigot, or whatever, but I think that's wrong.

Studies have found zero evidence that children raised by gay couples are any less happy or well-adjusted (as children or later in life) than children raised by straight couples. So, if that's your concern, it's unfounded.

If your opposition isn't based on the welfare of the child, then yes, it's just bigotry.

And it will happen. It's not at all uncommon across Europe and as religious fundamentalism drops in this country, it will become perfectly acceptable here, too. Opposition to gay marriage and gay adoption drops with age. As the older generation passes on and the younger, more tolerant generation becomes the majority of the voter base, gay rights will gain more and more traction.
 
The comforting thing is, for all the resistance from religious bigots and "traditionalists," it's pretty obvious that they're doomed to end up on the wrong side of history. The trend within the country and the trend in the democratic world at large makes it very obvious that eventually gay marriage and adoption by gay couples will be standard part of American society.

A hundred years from now, people will look back on the people who oppose gay marriage in today's society with the same sense of baffled tragedy as people today look back on racists who opposed interracial marriage.


If we keep redefining everything, maybe a hundred years from now people will call a television a watermelon instead.


What if they look back on people who tried to equate an unfortunate brain disorder with skin color as the people who finished off this country once and for all?
 
I'm in the phillipines right now, its a VERY religious country, I'm pretty surprised how many transvestites are out walking around the streets.....like dudes in dresses and lipstick...pretty crazy.
 
Yep, I'm afraid you're right. This country has turned its back on many of its traditional values, and it's a sad state of affairs.

Yes, but you should understand that that's exactly what many people used to say about the idea of interracial marriage and women's rights. Much unhappiness about how America was losing its way by abandoning traditional notions of the woman's place in society and the purity of races. And how it would hurt American society. Society hasn't been hurt by those things in the slightest, and it won't be hurt by gay rights.

I understand that you will never, ever change your mind on this. That's fine. I'm heartened by the fact that people with your mindset will dwindle further and further into minority until, like past notions of the ills of women voting or taking part in the workforce or the ills of interractial marriage, the whole idea of preventing gays from marrying or adopting becomes laughable.

We're going the way of the Roman Empire, with more and more degradation every passing day.

The Roman empire didn't fall apart due to homosexuality being acceptable. It fell apart due to corruption, the undermining of the democratic process and the concomitant curtailment of individual rights. Also, empires are inherently unstable, in the historical view. You can subjugate far-flung provinces for only so long.
 
bodyman5001 said:
What if they look back on people who tried to equate an unfortunate brain disorder

You've already admitted that you're a troll on subjects like these, so you'll forgive me if I don't rise to the bait. ;)
 
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Yes, but you should understand that that's exactly what many people used to say about the idea of interracial marriage and women's rights. Much unhappiness about how America was losing its way by abandoning traditional notions of the woman's place in society and the purity of races. And how it would hurt American society. Society hasn't been hurt by those things in the slightest, and it won't be hurt by gay rights.

I understand that you will never, ever change your mind on this. That's fine. I'm heartened by the fact that people with your mindset will dwindle further and further into minority until, like past notions of the ills of women voting or taking part in the workforce or the ills of interractial marriage, the whole idea of preventing gays from marrying or adopting becomes laughable.



The Roman empire didn't fall apart due to homosexuality being acceptable. It fell apart due to corruption, the undermining of the democratic process and the concomitant curtailment of individual rights. Also, empires are inherently unstable, in the historical view. You can subjugate far-flung provinces for only so long.

do you believe this acceptance will eventually fall the slippery slope to other "taboos" such as pedophilla, beastilaity, etc?

Why or why not?

I believe there are advocacy groups such as NAMBLA out there right now....maybe in 15-20 years, who knows what will happen.
 
Makes me sad that you would think that what I said isn't true.

What isn't a brain disorder these days?

Not trying to "troll" as people say, just trying to play devil's advocate.
 
do you believe this acceptance will eventually fall the slippery slope to other "taboos" such as pedophilla, beastilaity, etc?

Why or why not?

No, because unlike gay marriage, pedophilia and beastiality aren't only between consenting adults.

Pedophilia has actually been shown to harm children, emotionally. Beastiality would fall under mistreatment of animals.

Legislating against harm to others is perfectly valid. Legislating "I don't personally like it, so you please don't do it" isn't.
 
Yes, but you should understand that that's exactly what many people used to say about the idea of interracial marriage and women's rights. Much unhappiness about how America was losing its way by abandoning traditional notions of the woman's place in society and the purity of races. And how it would hurt American society. Society hasn't been hurt by those things in the slightest, and it won't be hurt by gay rights.

I understand that you will never, ever change your mind on this. That's fine. I'm heartened by the fact that people with your mindset will dwindle further and further into minority until, like past notions of the ills of women voting or taking part in the workforce or the ills of interractial marriage, the whole idea of preventing gays from marrying or adopting becomes laughable.



The Roman empire didn't fall apart due to homosexuality being acceptable. It fell apart due to corruption, the undermining of the democratic process and the concomitant curtailment of individual rights. Also, empires are inherently unstable, in the historical view. You can subjugate far-flung provinces for only so long.

This is pure and utter bullshit. The part about our society not being hurt by certain things. Women's rights may have been the right thing to advance morally but the feminists have sure as shit hurt this country.

Tell me what the country was like in the 50s. I wasn't there, but from what I have witnessed, men worked and women stayed at home and raised children. The man provided a home, a car and family vacations and such. The women taught the children to read and write and watched them when they weren't at school.

Fast forward 50 years and most women HAVE to work. There are very few one income families and the ones I see live paycheck to paycheck because the couple (or just the man) is stubborn and wants to live that way.

There may have been plenty of horrible things in the past, but there are plenty of things we have screwed up in the future.

PS....when I am outnumbered in a discussion 100 to 1 because I am talking to people from the Pacific Northwest, I tend to try and tread lightly as this board is my stop for Trailblazer info. Not discussion with a bunch of loony lefties.

So, I will say what I feel like but try not to get banned.

I admitted that my disgusting sister clouds my perspective on this issue, that doesn't make me a troll. That just makes me like someone in a debate about abortion, I have very firm feelings on it and it would take a lot to change.
 
No, because unlike gay marriage, pedophilia and beastiality aren't only between consenting adults.

Pedophilia has actually been shown to harm children, emotionally. Beastiality would fall under mistreatment of animals.

Legislating against harm to others is perfectly valid. Legislating "I don't personally like it, so you please don't do it" isn't.


You know, I bet the billions of cows we slaughter for food would rather get a little back door action from some crazy guy once in a while. You probably want to stop everyone from eating meat too...except gay guys.
 
No, because unlike gay marriage, pedophilia and beastiality aren't only between consenting adults.

Pedophilia has actually been shown to harm children, emotionally. Beastiality would fall under mistreatment of animals.

Legislating against harm to others is perfectly valid. Legislating "I don't personally like it, so you please don't do it" isn't.

What if the dog is the "giver"?

As for pedophillia.....its exploitation, but again, its been tolerated in the past....perhaps as society changes, it will be more tolerated in the future. you never know.
 
What if the dog is the "giver"?

As for pedophillia.....its exploitation, but again, its been tolerated in the past....perhaps as society changes, it will be more tolerated in the future. you never know.
Maybe all heterosexuals are going to hell. You never know.
 
You know, I bet the billions of cows we slaughter for food would rather get a little back door action from some crazy guy once in a while.

I think that's an excellent point. There's definitely an ethical dilemma to slaughtering animals when we don't need to for survival--essentially for "entertainment" (good taste).

Clearly, animal rights fall well down the ladder of most people's (including mine) ethical priorities compared to rights for humans. But I could certainly envision society moving away from killing animals for food in the future. I don't know that that will happen, but it might.
 
I think that's an excellent point. There's definitely an ethical dilemma to slaughtering animals when we don't need to for survival--essentially for "entertainment" (good taste).

Clearly, animal rights fall well down the ladder of most people's (including mine) ethical priorities compared to rights for humans. But I could certainly envision society moving away from killing animals for food in the future. I don't know that that will happen, but it might.


I was clearly trolling, don't cherry pick what you wanna talk about:ghoti:

Oh yeah, Soylent Green.
 
Why? If you make a good point, rather than merely an attempt at "button-pushing," I'm happy to respond. ;)

I always make good points. You missed the part about calling a tv a watermelon.

People used to draw on cave walls. Now we feel like we are super smart and shit.

It all boils down to what gets taught in the schools. Think about it.
 
You missed the part about calling a tv a watermelon.

I didn't miss that, I just didn't feel there was a lot of insight. There's no redefinition going on, because the idea that "marriage" always has and always must mean between a man and a woman is essentially religious in nature. Marriage does also mean a partnership...so there doesn't need to be a redefinition to encompass two people of the same sex partnering.

The idea that this is a step towards a loss of social coherence doesn't seem very reasonable. Nobody's going to lose all sense of what's what if homosexual couples can make the same commitment to each other that hetereosexual couples make.

It all boils down to what gets taught in the schools.

I think that's reversed. What gets taught in schools depends on societal beliefs. Alien overlords don't set school curriculum, society does. The trend for democratic societies has been to progress towards more individual rights, insofar as they don't infringe upon other people.
 
Studies have found zero evidence that children raised by gay couples are any less happy or well-adjusted (as children or later in life) than children raised by straight couples. So, if that's your concern, it's unfounded.

If your opposition isn't based on the welfare of the child, then yes, it's just bigotry.

And it will happen. It's not at all uncommon across Europe and as religious fundamentalism drops in this country, it will become perfectly acceptable here, too. Opposition to gay marriage and gay adoption drops with age. As the older generation passes on and the younger, more tolerant generation becomes the majority of the voter base, gay rights will gain more and more traction.

I'd like to see these "so-called" studies your referring to. :lol: I seriously doubt their validity. I have no opposition to gay marriage as homosexuality is seen in many species as well as humans. Homosexuals raising their offspring is not however and is unnatural.
 
I'd like to see these "so-called" studies your referring to. :lol: I seriously doubt their validity. I have no opposition to gay marriage as homosexuality is seen in many species as well as humans. Homosexuals raising their offspring is not however and is unnatural.

Why not? What reasons do you have?
 
Man, I wonder how Golden State is going to defend out bigs down low? Oh my bad, I thought this was a forum about basketball. Sorry.
 

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